I have some questions for those of you who have met up with a stranger to do a tickle session. I have never done this and the idea of it freaks me out because I feel like tickling is an intimate activity and to do it with someone I barely know seems like it would be very uncomfortable. I'm speaking from an ignorant perspective though, since I've never tried.
1. Is it uncomfortable at first, like awkward silence or whatever? How do you break the ice?
2. Do you let them have free range of your body and bare skin? If so, has a tickling session ever become sexual? Follow up question to that, has anyone ever been touched or treated in a very inappropriate way that made them uncomfortable and forced to end the session?
3. Does anyone have any interesting(good or bad) stories about a tickle session?
If you are a firm believer in sessions, try to sell me on it because right now I just don't think they are right for me, but I do love tickling altogether.
I will try to answer these as best I can.
As a female switch, meeting other tickling fetishists for sessions is inherently more of a risk; and I inherently have more persons interested in meeting me and sending messages to me about this.
One thing I had that was alike across all 3 tmf guys I have met now... They were well-spoken in writing, we spent at least a month or more chatting daily, and talked on the phone multiple times.
Usually people will go over where they all want to be in any kink situation; what the fantasy ideal is for them; what is the ideal for their partner, etc. In a session a safeword should always be used, never do "no safewords extreme tickling" like some guys will ask about. In the chat room I got asked about it tonight in fact. If anything starts being done that you never discussed or agreed to, use your safeword, end the session, and get away from them. At the point you have used the safeword, and the other person won't stop, what they are doing is now sexual assault.
I did not ever let anyone have free range over my body/skin in a first session. I have had tickling sessions become erotic and sexual, but it was discussed that it might, and it was after the initial meeting and 1st session.
In my first ever session with someone on the tmf, at age 19, I did have a guy start behaving in a very inappropriate way toward me. In hindsight, I should have ended the session right then. In reality, I was a nervous 19 year old who didn't want to confront him, have a big argument, or ruin the tickle session bc he got too sexually aggressive, but quit and calmed down when I told him to knock knocking?
Tonight in the chat room, I was in there around 3.5-4 hrs total. A few that I talked to, you know who you are, helped me talk thru something by actually treating me like a person and listened/gave advice.
I also got during that short time the request I mentioned for tickling with no safewords, I got a guy I used to talk with on and off, who has another girlfriend and lives overseas, supposedly open to his looking to chat here, tell me that he missed talking with me (that was fine) and said 'make no mistake, I need you" (which was not fine, and I feel like a bitch but had to be harsh and tell him that his gf needs him much more, he has never met me, he doesn't 'need' me, he doesn't even really know me. Another member sent multiple questions which kept coming back to a scenario where what they SEEMED to be asking was if it was ever a strong temptation to tickle people nonconsentually ; that's the direction every topic went with them...
This was a few hours. Guys... Calm the fuck down and act like adults with some sense, please. OP, I can't sell you on sessions... I have fun with them, but there will always be risk and you will get treated like an object meant only to fulfill someone's fantasy sometimes. But it is possible to meet really great people, and build lasting friendships or relationships. Just choose who you get close to carefully, and don't expect them to value your interests or be considerate of what you have told them you want or don't want... If they weren't before, they won't be in session.