So I am 30-something now, but in early 2000s I was 19, going to the strip club with friends for the first time. It was honestly pretty boring to me, as it was just a ton of naked women with almost no personality, and guys just giving out money. It just felt so impersonal, I wasn't into it.
My cousin pays for my first lap dance, it was a po-dunk place where the VIP section was literally just mattresses in a room. I lie down, you have to lie with arms behind head and can't move them to touch the girls, as she gyrates all over me, seemed to be a more experienced woman. I mentioned something about tickling or ask about her being ticklish, and I remember she kinda teased and was like "little boy wanna be tickled?" And she just takes pleasure in digging in to my ribs as I have to keep my arms behind my head. Unfortunately, same thing every time for me, I feel the ticklish sensation but it doesn't over power me, so I don't necessarily laugh at first, but to stop her from quitting, I tell her to do that the rest of the time. It was only 30 seconds, but it was a fun, squirmful 30 seconds.
And that was my first lap dance ever.