Ladies need ideas for sensual/romantic tickle

Married 20 years, I wrote a few stories in the true story section. Wife does not have a tickle fetish but will indulge me once in awhile.

Got this idea, her spread and knees tied apart, so all important pink parts can be reached. Want to tease and play then put a Wii vibe in her nylons and let her vibe her while I play with her.
Then when she cums I want to turn her on her stomach and put the lelo remote bullit in her nylons and turn it on lowest setting while I play with her a little more.
Ending the night with sex and maybe a massage for her.

My question is the middle part, I want it sensual and erotic.
Have there been stories you gals have read that made you think if your man did that to you it would be erotic or a real turn on?

I have vibrating nipple clamps also. She just told me that the casino comped us dinner and a hotel room. Obviously after 20 years of marriage I have restraints.

Just need to fill in the middle part of this fantasy.
If it was someone I didnt care or love sure I would spread eagle and tickle the crap out of them, them orgasm and do it more. But that would just get me divorced. Or worse she wouldn't let me tie her up any more. Lol

Guess being a typical guy I get caught up in the same routine, kiss neck,grab boob, some oral, some sex, done.

I want her guessing, and breathing heavy, panting wanting to cum, that type stuff. So many stories here I was just hoping to find a realistic one. But filled with some of what I wrote.
Thanks again

My man loves dressing up. Especially in nice suits. Whenever there is a special occassion, he always wears a suit jacket/ slacks, nice shirt. He use to do it much more but... times are tough. It's always a turn on to see him in those clothes. I have yet to really see him in the X version of what I like. Black gloves etc... but... anyway.

For me a big part of sex is the clothes. Idk what your wife likes to see you in... but... maybe wear whatever that is. It really helps a fantasy come alive when you wear what your partner enjoys seeing you in.

Maybe buy her a sexy outift and have it waiting for her on the bed. Wrapped up like a gift. Maybe a little teddy bear and chocolates. What women find erotic is not what is on most men's menu so to speak.

Also maybe think about what she has said in the past to you that she wants you to do. Sometimes it's the simple things that are far more erotic to a woman. Like dancing and such. I know you're looking for the middle of the fantasy but... you may not need a middle so to speak. Giving her a break from the tickling. Maybe have a nice snack waiting... (like a nce set up of strawberries/ various fruits and chocolate/ whip cream) that to me is whats best here. Or at least what I would do. Esp considering shes not that into tickling. I mean... Idk if she likes nipple clamps but... that may be too much for her.

We used the vibrating nipple clamps several times and she does love being tied up. I guess my point was I cant just go crazy tickling her that would be too intense.
So like for me when I'm tied I like the sonicare, also like the tickling intense then much less intense after I cum

For her its light to maybe medium intensity maybe, then almost none after she cums. I guess like I mentioned before I might need to just look at other story places on how to build intensity for her sexually and simply work in a little tickling for my pleasure.

Was really just wondering what others here do to make their ladies build with excitement, or what they have done to them.