brotherted
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Like most everyone else here, I like tickling sessions with significant others or females I'm dating or already know really well. But this post is about that first poke... when you don't know if she'll jerk and squeal uncontrollably, or just stare at you with a confused expression.
What are the ways you guys have introduced that initial tickle test into conversations or situations, long before any bigger deal is made about fetishes, bondage and the like?
Here are some of mine:
1.) Identify in conversation some way the girl was messing with me, or mocking me, at the same moment you accuse her with a hard consonant word like "mock," give her a poke in the sides, so the tickle is framed as a way to get her back for something, rather than fetish.
2.) Introduce a theme of either games or contests. First, have her do other things like guess playing cards, or balance things, then let the third or fourth contest be whether the girl can remain completely still for 30 seconds apart from blinking and breathing. Then about 10 seconds in, she gets the poke. So it gets framed as comedy, rather than fetish.
3.) Suggest she's tense about something, let that lead to an offer for a massage. After a couple of seconds, ask "Do you feel tense? Let me check."
I'm sure some people on this board feel like you should confess your tickling fetish to everyone, early in knowing them. But for me, I'm going to stay a little more incognito than that, until I know someone really well. Thanks.
What are the ways you guys have introduced that initial tickle test into conversations or situations, long before any bigger deal is made about fetishes, bondage and the like?
Here are some of mine:
1.) Identify in conversation some way the girl was messing with me, or mocking me, at the same moment you accuse her with a hard consonant word like "mock," give her a poke in the sides, so the tickle is framed as a way to get her back for something, rather than fetish.
2.) Introduce a theme of either games or contests. First, have her do other things like guess playing cards, or balance things, then let the third or fourth contest be whether the girl can remain completely still for 30 seconds apart from blinking and breathing. Then about 10 seconds in, she gets the poke. So it gets framed as comedy, rather than fetish.
3.) Suggest she's tense about something, let that lead to an offer for a massage. After a couple of seconds, ask "Do you feel tense? Let me check."
I'm sure some people on this board feel like you should confess your tickling fetish to everyone, early in knowing them. But for me, I'm going to stay a little more incognito than that, until I know someone really well. Thanks.