My own experience is accelerated, but I'm always in control. So it's always safe. However, I wouldn't recommend following my lead.
Don't rush it, if you're not sure. There's many an opportunity, and there's no reason to move forward if you're not sure. Though I myself can be bad about this, you don't have to move so quickly. However, you should go ahead and jump on Skype as soon as possible. Though I try not to be cynical, there are a plethora of deceptive people on the Internet, not all malicious, but you don't want to waste your time with someone like that.
While some people might see it as shallow, you do need to see if the person is actually physically attractive to you. In other situations it might not matter, but when you're engaging in sexual activities like this, then it certainly does. Or at least it might, I don't know your particular tastes, you might see beauty in all of us!
But talking on Skype is also important because you get to actually experience the person's personality. It's possible to be fake on Skype, but there's no easier way to hide yourself than by text. With some Skype conversations, you can get a better feel for their personality and how they might react.
If you decide to meet up. Make it neutral first. I'd say the key is making sure you're in control at all times. You probably want to make it a public place. Somewhere familiar to you, possibly a regular stop. Just in case, maybe have a friend around. I'm not trying to frighten you, meeting up with people can be very fulfilling and intriguing, but there's no reason not to take some precautions.
If you decide to actually have a private meet up or session. Control is still the key. Before hand, make sure you have a clear indication about what you want, and how far you want it to go. That can stop you all from having a bad session/experience. You should make absolutely certain other people know where you went(you might not be comfortable saying why), and what time.
If possible, try and set up some type of call/receive situation with a friend or family member. That way they can check up on you during, and you can relay your good time.
I really hope it works out!