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Why are there so many negative talk about /M tickling videos and photos?

solangeleichtle

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So many times whenever someone posts a video or a photo of a guy getting tickled, either the poster (was not meant to seem like I meant poser. Couldn't think of a better word lol) or a reply always seems to say something bad about it like "UGH a guy getting tickled is not what I wanna see" or if it's f/m someone always says "it should've been the girl getting tickled." I mean I know this site is mainly /F themed but I really don't think people should be posting their disgust over a specific gender getting tickled. To be quite honest, I'm not really a fan of /F tickling and I mainly come here to find the rare /M post here especially the list of the ticklish male celebrities but I'm always happy to share any videos or photos of females getting tickled for people who do enjoy it and I can do it without feeling the need to share my displeasure over how it's not a man getting tickled. Again, I know this site is mostly /F themed and people have the right to not like watching a man get tickled or a woman getting tickled. I just feel that we should keep those opinions to ourselves out of respect for the people who do enjoy it. I hope I didn't offend anyone. I just felt I should share my concern.
 
IMO it's gotten a lot better than it was when TMF first began. That's unfortunate that those responses are still that common though.
 
I'm straight, but I like female ticklers. Even if I'm a 'ler myself, I believe women are generally more skilled at tickling because it's common for girls to tickle each other anyway. For this reason I have grown to appreciate some F/M videos, despite not being into ticklish dudes. I just have a high libido. I also notice women often tickle way meaner when they have a male lee and a woman constantly talking is less of a turnoff than a man doing the same.

Female 'lers are very arrousing to me making me question my pure 'ler status at times, to be honest. :) From women I also learn to tickle better more so than from men. Just my personal opinion.
 
Because the majority of people here are straight? Just because tickling isn't necessarily seen as sexual doesn't make it acceptable to post pictures of men on the receiving end or men tickling each other. That would be like a form dedicating to ass or blow jobs, they like looking at women's ass or women giving blow jobs if you posted a man's ass or gay sex that would be a problem.

People seem to have a hard time understanding that when it comes to feet as well. There should probably be a section for people into men being tickled so others don't have to see it.
 
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Because the majority of people here are straight? Just because tickling isn't necessarily seen as sexual doesn't make it acceptable to post pictures of men on the receiving end or men tickling each other. That would be like a form dedicating to ass or blow jobs, they like looking at women's ass or women giving blow jobs if you posted a man's ass or gay sex that would be a problem.

People seem to have a hard time understanding that when it comes to feet as well. There should probably be a section for people into men being tickled so others don't have to see it.

To me it's sexual as fuck. I find it a pity that fucking or oral is so rare in tickling videos. :) Edging luckily is somewhat of common, and it combines very well with tickling, making it more of a torture for the 'lee. Heck, even handjob videos sell relatively well, and straight guys also watch those.
 
Because the majority of people here are straight? Just because tickling isn't necessarily seen as sexual doesn't make it acceptable to post pictures of men on the receiving end or men tickling each other. That would be like a form dedicating to ass or blow jobs, they like looking at women's ass or women giving blow jobs if you posted a man's ass or gay sex that would be a problem.

People seem to have a hard time understanding that when it comes to feet as well. There should probably be a section for people into men being tickled so others don't have to see it.

I don't know how one can say the majority of people here are straight. Or what that has to do with */m

It most certainly is acceptable to post pictures of men being tickled here, I don't understand why you would think otherwise lol

If the title is clear, I don't see how you could make the mistake of seeing something you don't want to see.
 
i think in the tickle world its more heterosexual males that like tickling and being that way they want to see females getting it all opinion tho
 
Because the majority of people here are straight? Just because tickling isn't necessarily seen as sexual doesn't make it acceptable to post pictures of men on the receiving end or men tickling each other. That would be like a form dedicating to ass or blow jobs, they like looking at women's ass or women giving blow jobs if you posted a man's ass or gay sex that would be a problem.

People seem to have a hard time understanding that when it comes to feet as well. There should probably be a section for people into men being tickled so others don't have to see it.
For your information, there are lots of straight men who enjoy f/m tickling in stories, in photos, in videos, and in real life.
 
Some dudes watch f/f, some females watch m/m. Does that make them gay?

TF kinda logic is going on here? lolol
 
As long as the post is labeled that it is /m I know to stay away from it so it's not much of a problem for me but I do agree with Revy in that there should be a Male tickling section to help keep that stuff sectioned off from the people who dont want to see it at all.
 
I mean, if it's clearly labelled, what are you seeing

To be fair it'd probably help them find what they're looking for faster too tho
 
The way I see it, people like what they like. However just because someone likes /f and another likes /m, I don’t think that should cause such a negative reaction. Personally, I used to be only into /f but as time went on and I grew a little, my mentality changed and I was like, you know what let’s have some /m. As long as everyone is having a good time, and it’s all consensual, I don’t see an issue.
 
If you want to word it like that but it would be beneficial for people who are into /m tickling as well being that all that content would be in one section and easier to find.
 
I don't see an issue with any of it at all. I'm straight and like to watch m/m videos. Sometimes it's just nice to see tickling being done, regardless of the sex. I would tickle anyone. I'll tickle anyone, haha!! The act of tickling doesn't mean it has to be done with some sexual undertone. Just enjoy it for what it is and have fun!! :)
 
Ever see a thread and just know how bad it’s going to end up? And here we go.

Seriously though, it’s all supposed to be appropriately titled, don’t like it, don’t watch it, move on. Everything revolving around tickling is absolutely acceptable here, and to attempt to preach otherwise is against who we are as a community.
 
A thread complaining about people complaining.

And here we are complaining about it.

It's debatable whether tickling or complaining is the #1 topic of this forum.
 
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I don't get it either. I'm a fucking lesbian, and I don't have any problem with /M content. It isn't for me, but I don't have to voice that dissension ever time. Or even once.

But if you've been on the Internet for even half a second, then you already know that people want to voice their opinions even when they have nothing to do with the topic. I guess it's no different here.
 
Because people want to complain and that seems like something easy to whine about?

I often prefer /m tickling videos as I find it far less distracting (Not saying there isn’t any, but my experience of horrible fake tickloshness, and equally deplorable fake sexy moans to be much higher in /F). If I wanted something overly sexual or porn, I’d watch that instead. But I have found /M to be a lot more tickling-focussed, solely (NO pun intended!). And I like to see people happy (whether they want it or not is another issue entirely :devil:).
 
I too would love it if people stopped shaming others for what they like. Nothing wrong with /M tickling just as there is nothing wrong with /F tickling or other various scenarios. Trying to dictate what genders people can enjoy is unacceptable. We all love tickling, that's what's important. Someone else liking something you don't like does not IN ANY WAY detract from your ability to enjoy what you like. But commenting negatively and judgmentally on things that other people like definitely hurts them and hurts the community as a whole.

So, stop tickle shaming. All genders deserve to enjoy, receive, give, celebrate, and explore tickling. No person has the authority to dictate or shame the interests of others. If you don't like something, just leave it be for others to enjoy.
 
I have seen the argument of "that's fine, as long as we don't have to see it" come up many many times, in many many situations, over many many issues, and it's almost always about how a perceived (and sometimes not even actual) majority want things to be catered to them. It's not about preference or appropriateness. Honestly, if it was, people would also be saying that we should section off /f material for those that don't want to see it. Leaning on the excuse that /m is acceptable to treat "differently" or is "unacceptable" to just come across here simply "because straight people" ignores both the existence of straight women and queer people who, by that logic, would "naturally" prefer such things. And if you add up all the women and queer people here, you -might- have a bigger number than you think. Constantly seeing any posts that involve /m treated as if they are hazardous material can make a place like this seem unwelcoming to people who like those things. (For all the guys who wonder where the women are...)

And please, please, PLEASE can we all stop even pretending to believe that f/m is inherently homosexual? Really. It's kind of inherently NOT, given it's a man and a woman, so by definition, not gay. (Not saying that this thread has specifically said that in those words, but I swear to you, I have seen it said here more than once.) If seeing a male in any sort of consensual submissive position truly honestly disturbs you, beyond just not being your cup of tea, that is why labels are put on posts. If simply seeing the label come up in a discussion forum bugs you enough that you MUST click on it to say just how bothered you are... well... I'm not sure what to say to that.

Being united as people with an unusual fetish -should- be enough for us to agree not to shame others for what they are into. And given many people in the kink community have more than one fetish, it's likely we're ALL going to see something that we're not necessarily into. I expect this, and I deal with this, and if it's something I don't like, I move on. I just repeatedly fail to see why anything /m has to be the exception to the rule here.
 
When it comes to videos, I don't much care for f/m or m/m. Not my taste.
When it comes to music, I don't care for modern country music, singing "contest" shows, or a capella groups.
But I don't make it a point to bother strangers about my own personal tastes, and no one should care what I think anyway.
 
People are very good at marking posts gender and orientation specific.

But the sheer violentness of some of these reactions is mind boggling. Are people so sensitive to material they do not like that a possible accidental glance will make their pee pee go inside their body only to shoot out their butthole?

Orientation tickling is content meant for the people into it. This isn't the 'Females Being Tickled By Females Media Forum'. When someone posts "eww, males being tickled is gross, nobody wants to see that!", they don't understand a critical thing; their opinion on the content doesn't matter. Their opinion isn't being solicited. And since most threads are effectively marked by gender and orientation, the reality is...it's something they sought out to say something about.

In a way, it's gay bashing done by lame hetero dudes nobody cares or should care about.
 
I'm sorry, but if you're not into it, nobody cares. Nobody needs to hear that you aren't into it. You don't have to jump to examples of children and pedophilia to try and justify a point, doing so erroneously.

/M isn't being forced upon you. That's the stupidest thing I've heard. You don't go to Baskin Robbins and have customers saying to other customers "there should only be vanilla here because that's most popular, chocolate is disgusting." You also don't go to Baskin Robbins and say "well because chocolate is here that means arson is okay." This is an adult content board with an age restriction, denoting it as mature. Anything underage here can be construed as sexual in nature. THAT'S why you don't see it here. This board also doesn't cater to the wants and needs of pedophiles, and never has.

Remotely manuevering M/M in this avenue shows off a person's homophobia. You want me to be honest? You're going on about a sexual fetish. Using the mental gymnastics here, how far is tickling being acceptable away from fucking barnyard animals? Because that's the level yall are going here.
 
I'm a big F/M fan, and to be honest, I remember some women on the TMF saying in another thread, they're turned off by male 'Lee's, or they think male Lee's aren't masculine(paraphrasing.) Personally, as a switch, those comments turned me off. I felt like I was dealing w/narrow minded vanillas. Being a straight male, I didn't care what the guys thought, but I was surprised some of the women here were so judgmental.
 
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