Hard to make tickle friends?

bLeven · Mar 13, 2019

So I'm 21 years old, male and I find it always super hard to make friends who like tickling- both online and in real life. I'm quite shy but I love meeting people and love having fun. Anyone have any tips to make tickle friends? And yes, I'm open for friendships haha

luvgirlsfeet · Mar 13, 2019

I wish you luck. I've only met two people in person on the TMF that goes back to 2006 since then no luck meeting anyone else. However I have exchanged PM's ( Personal Messages ) with people here. I'm still hopeful but as the saying goes time will tell

Comfort Eagle · Mar 13, 2019

I've found it much easier trying to introduce "vanilla" friends into tickling than I have trying to befriend other tickle fetish people. There's more perceived risk involved, but from my experiences I can't report anything bad.

mang0 · Mar 13, 2019

Just bee yourself bro

gael.tkl · Mar 13, 2019

is true, it is really hard to make friends in real life as you and the other person need the enough confidence to finally agree to meet, my case I had met few I found on yahoo groups years ago, recently only one I found on facebook. Online it is easier but you get to a point where there is not much more to say. My advice is that be yourself all the time, and express clearly what are you looking for, and include normal subjects to your chats, not all have to be tickling so they may make a better image of you. Good luck

xStrangesoundZx · Mar 13, 2019

Comfort Eagle said:
I've found it much easier trying to introduce "vanilla" friends into tickling than I have trying to befriend other tickle fetish people. There's more perceived risk involved, but from my experiences I can't report anything bad.

I agree with this wholeheartedly. I learned this more then ever and have proved more successful. Though I do not know what your preference is but some groups seems to have more luck then others.

Libertine · Mar 14, 2019

Comfort Eagle said:
I've found it much easier trying to introduce "vanilla" friends into tickling than I have trying to befriend other tickle fetish people. There's more perceived risk involved, but from my experiences I can't report anything bad.

True enough. In my case, she wasn't vanilla, but hadn't heard of this as a specific variation. We happened to met 14 years ago in completely prosaic circumstances while sitting next to one another at adjacent computers in a London cybercafe, have been married for 12, and touch wood will remain together.

As Woody Allen put it, bLeven, 'Sometimes a little luck is the best solution'.

Being a male in your very early 20s is difficult and annoying, but I promise that if you keep interacting with womankind (IRL only the overwhelming percentage of the time- that's vital and the only way to develop and practise your social skills!) and learn to deal with your fear of rejection, things will get easier.

Best wishes and get out there!