Hey everybody, I'm posting this to vent a little and also to see if anyone with similar experience has any helpful advice. My girlfriend has been off for the past couple months, not distant necessarily, but something had definitely been off. Last night after we put her kids to bed (after a completely normal day), she and I were sitting in the living room and I asked where her head was at. After some hesitation she told me she's been thinking for the past couple months that she is gay. She's always maintained her bi identity in the year and a half that we've been together, and we'd always had a lively sexual relationship, but in the past two months we've had sex maybe twice. She says she loves me and wants to be with me and work through this with me, but is now unsure of the future. I'm not angry with her, and I understand how difficult having that conversation with me must have been, but I am incredibly hurt and anxious and I'm worried she's just keeping me around for what will ultimately amount to a breakup that will be more painful than if we just got it over with now. I'd love to hear what limited perspectives anyone can glean from this, but especially from people who've been there on either side. Thanks in advance.