Paying for a session: worth it?

Hi everyone, I'm having an internal debate that I think I need external help with.

For years I've been searching for the opportunity for a full-on tickle session, and have never had the luck. I am traveling to the UK in May and have the opportunity to pay for a session with a professional ticklee. However, her rates are high, and I'd be paying something around $100 for a 30 min session with her (or double that time for double the money).

This would be my first real tickle session, and while I'm eager to do it, the money makes me wonder if it's worth it. What do you think from your experience? Is it worth it to finally get the experience I've been waiting for, or should I save $100 and wait for it to happen naturally later (like introducing it into a relationship)?

Depends how desperate you are.

After a solid 5 years of active seeking, I'm fairly desperate lol. But never having done it, I don't know if it's truly worth $100 for 30 minutes with someone I don't know. Even though I'm sure it would be amazing.

Just my two cents on this...Well, first of all, $100 for 30 minutes is a COMPLETE rip-off. I've paid for sessions before, and they've all been $100 for an hour.

Back to the topic, this decision certainly depends on so many factors. How bad do you want it (as mentioned above)?...Would you feel like you missed an opportunity of a lifetime if you didn't? Is what the person is offering worth not only your money, but your time as well? Could you find better? Will this truly make you happier or will it just make you more desperate in the long run?

In my experience, I've had a few good sessions but mostly forgettable sessions. I've fortunately even been allowed to tape and photograph these sessions, and I STILL felt like I wasted my time and ended up with $100 less in the end. Short answer: you should probably save your money...BUT it is possible to have an experience where you're like, "Wow, that was awesome, and the person was unforgettable", in which case it's totally worth the money. I can't really guide you on how to find those gems, though. Sometimes it's luck. Other times it's just having like a 6th sense about a person.

Depending on how long you're going to be in the UK, try http://londonfetishscene.com/ to find out about clubs and munches, then drop by and be pleasantly open about things. You may find a free playmate. On average, British girls are far less puritanical/censorious than the average American girl, and the ones who attend events such as those advertised on that website are open to experimentation if they like you. Unlike the very non-atmospheric American fetish clubs, the dress codes for UK fetish clubs are strict- simply wearing a leather jacket, for instance, will definitely NOT get you admitted- so do your research and buy an outfit in the US- it will be far less expensive.

You should also put up a properly filled out profile on Fetlife with a picture- head and shoulders will do- it DOESN"T have to be on the main site, just in your entry, and mention when you'll be in the country. Do this ASAP and make a few posts just so that you have something by which you can be referenced.

As for your paid session- yes, if you genuinely must. Try www.londonsubmissivegirls.com and you'll have a selection of girls who work in a well equipped place according to the website. I've never been, but can tell you the rate will definitely be over a hundred bucks for a half hour.

However... that $100.00 will also buy a fair bit of coffee and cake at a terrific perve cafe in central London called 'Coffee, Cake and Kisses' http://coffeecakekisses.com/about/what and again, it's a nice atmosphere to meet like minded people, comparable to 'Wicked Grounds' in San Francisco.

Just make sure you're being sociable in the right places (Force yourself to chat if necessary. Ask questions requiring explanations rather than a yes or no reply and then just interject a word or two now and again to keep things rolling) and there's every likelihood that you'll find what you want for free, rather than paying some bored pre-paid non-ticklish girl who has one eye on her wristwatch as she pretends to laugh, and is simply waiting for you to finish.

Good luck.

FWIW, I paid for a session once, and loved it! I had been dreaming of a RL session for years but never had never tried. After my first marriage ended, I had a trip to LA and decided to take the plunge and try the Dominion. Don't remember the price but it was totally worth it. Even though I was nervous it was fantastic!

I would have done more without hesitation, except after that I finally started dating girls who let me tickle. Took lots of tries but I found some. Then married the best ever

So there's hope! And paid sessions in the meantime certainly worth trying.

I say you only live once so go for it. I do think $100 for a half hour is a little high. But in all fairness the price could be the ticklee's price, not much you can do about that.

Thank you,
LBFT

Libertine, as usual, makes some excellent points. You could do far worse than follow his advice.

Nevertheless, I would add one thing by analogy with food:

Some steaks prepared for mutual consumption by somebody who loves you (or by you for both of you) is a wonderful meal. It is surely much better than a hamburger placed in front of you by a waitress who is smiling only in hopes of getting a bigger tip.

But if you are very hungry, then go ahead and order the hamburger.

I always paid $250 to $300 per hour for wrestlers that id tickle. they were a little high end for sure, but I always had bad luck with finding cheaper escorts.

I was going to say that 100 is cheap compared to the prices I've seen. I'm used to seeing prices like $300, $400 even as high as $500/hr. Hence why I haven't paid for one. But, since you have asked... I saw some people ask how desperate you are for it, which is a valid question I think another question you need to ask yourself is what do you want? A quick fix to tide you over, or something more? I'm not trying to lead you either way, but if it is a safe environment and you're willing, there isn't anything wrong with it.... though the aftermath might leave you unsatisfied... or not! You might be riding a high for a long time having gotten it out of your system!

ticklishmikey said:

I was going to say that 100 is cheap compared to the prices I've seen. I'm used to seeing prices like $300, $400 even as high as $500/hr.

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It's outrageous. Prostitution out in Nevada is even worse than that yet.

The answer here is yes. I waited way to long to try it and I enjoyed the sessions and regretted not doing it earlier. I will say there is a "drop from the high" that happens. You realize that it was a transaction and you will not be doing it any time soon.

A professional place like a dungeon would probably be the best for you. The subs and switches will probably be friendly and open to talking about the fetish. These women have seen all fetishes, so yours will feel tame. Just be open, friendly, respectful, and honest about your experience level. Also, do not be under the influence of anything. If it turns out it is not your thing, talk to some of the more experienced members here who have had success introducing this into a relationship. One thing I learned from a session is that so many men have a foot fetish and a lot are in a relationship/married.

Cost -vs- Time is relative. X-amount of money for X-amount of tickling time is each persons call.

I myself have yet to experience a bad or negitive pay for tickle session. But again, what is "worth it" to me is not the same for everyone else.

Just dive in, have the experience and judge for yourself from there...