maye-sensations
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Hello!
So I’m a newbie, not in regards to the interest but more so trying to satisfy it so to speak?
And in being both a paranoid nut and avid researcher, I’ve been trying to be as thorough as possible in figuring out the best way to approach sessions.
That being said, I’ve hit a bit of a wall; so I’d really appreciate some (more experienced) input!
Basically, would a munch or a one on one session be better for a first time session/experience?
To preface my situation specifically, I’m very lucky to have a well established tickle munch nearby! But unlike most munches (as far as I’m aware?) the play and dining happen in the same space, “potluck style.”
I know that munches have better overall regulation, a safer atmosphere with better possibilities of vetting and other good connections. And I’d really like to go at some point! I’m just concerned that the mass interaction in addition to mass amounts of play, something I’ve never experienced, will have me pegged as an anxious, fear-stricken wallflower from the get go!
Contrastingly, I know (far too well) one on one sessions have room for danger. It’s kind of all up to the two to decide if they’re trustworthy and find a place where the session can happen...alone.
I’ve watched enough forensic TV to immediately wanna chuck that idea, but the fewer people is immediately calming to me (if not possibly awkward in nature). Plus the addition of a public first meeting and scheduled check in phone call can help alleviate the danger as well! Not to mention my own want to find a person around my age to connect to and share the experience with (unlikely, but hey, a girl can dream~)
I dunno. I’m honestly leaning towards one on one. And I don’t usually like to be told I’m wrong...but this is a situation a bit more important than just my pride.
Thank you for any help on this topic and even just stopping by!
(Also, I see the advice subforum, but I thought the main section might warrant a better response. If I should need to repost in a more fitting area, please let me know!)
So I’m a newbie, not in regards to the interest but more so trying to satisfy it so to speak?
And in being both a paranoid nut and avid researcher, I’ve been trying to be as thorough as possible in figuring out the best way to approach sessions.
That being said, I’ve hit a bit of a wall; so I’d really appreciate some (more experienced) input!
Basically, would a munch or a one on one session be better for a first time session/experience?
To preface my situation specifically, I’m very lucky to have a well established tickle munch nearby! But unlike most munches (as far as I’m aware?) the play and dining happen in the same space, “potluck style.”
I know that munches have better overall regulation, a safer atmosphere with better possibilities of vetting and other good connections. And I’d really like to go at some point! I’m just concerned that the mass interaction in addition to mass amounts of play, something I’ve never experienced, will have me pegged as an anxious, fear-stricken wallflower from the get go!
Contrastingly, I know (far too well) one on one sessions have room for danger. It’s kind of all up to the two to decide if they’re trustworthy and find a place where the session can happen...alone.
I’ve watched enough forensic TV to immediately wanna chuck that idea, but the fewer people is immediately calming to me (if not possibly awkward in nature). Plus the addition of a public first meeting and scheduled check in phone call can help alleviate the danger as well! Not to mention my own want to find a person around my age to connect to and share the experience with (unlikely, but hey, a girl can dream~)
I dunno. I’m honestly leaning towards one on one. And I don’t usually like to be told I’m wrong...but this is a situation a bit more important than just my pride.
Thank you for any help on this topic and even just stopping by!
(Also, I see the advice subforum, but I thought the main section might warrant a better response. If I should need to repost in a more fitting area, please let me know!)