So I’ve been dating this girl for about a month now and am trying to figure out if I want to take things further. Im trying to gage if I want to introduce my fetish to her or not risk freaking her out and leave things the way they are.
Here’s what our tickling experience has been so far:
When we first met I started running my fingers lightly over her arms and she said “I love that. I love being tickled. Not tickled tickled but..” and then I said ”gently caressed?” And she said yeah.. From what i’ve noticed, when she is super turned on she seems not to be too ticklish but she finds “tickling” to be more sensual and it gets her wet. She likes when I kiss and nibble on super sensitive areas like her rib cage and sides and she likes when I lightly tickle her with my fingers. She doesn’t giggle always but her breath hitches and she quivers/moans. There was one time I was licking her nipples and something funny was playing on the TV and she started laughing and saying it was a combination of tickling and hearing the TV that made her laugh. I also like to lightly run my fingers over her ass and to bite it and she tells me she really likes it and she says that it tickles her too. I also told her that sex with her was so much better than sex with my ex because my ex wouldn’t let me do anything I liked to do to her because she was too ticklish. And she told me she was really ticklish too but that being turned on made it more sexual for her.
Finally when we were at the pool together recently I was gently caressing her as I usually do and I got to the underside of her upper arms and she started giggling and pulled away saying “stahhp Im really ticklish there. That’s like near my underarm!”
So based off of my interactions with her I can see she at the basic level likes sensual tickling which I think is great in and of itself. But I would love to tickle her more and tell her about my fetish I am just not too sure how she would react based off of this information. Especially considering the first time she mentioned it where she said she liked being tickled but not “tickled tickled”. She hasn’t really tickled me yet either but she does some of the same stuff to me during foreplay (we are both girls for context) and I react similarly as she does. Does anyone else haven any experience with a partner that likes sensual tickling and had advice on if they were able to open them to more hard tickling?
Here’s what our tickling experience has been so far:
When we first met I started running my fingers lightly over her arms and she said “I love that. I love being tickled. Not tickled tickled but..” and then I said ”gently caressed?” And she said yeah.. From what i’ve noticed, when she is super turned on she seems not to be too ticklish but she finds “tickling” to be more sensual and it gets her wet. She likes when I kiss and nibble on super sensitive areas like her rib cage and sides and she likes when I lightly tickle her with my fingers. She doesn’t giggle always but her breath hitches and she quivers/moans. There was one time I was licking her nipples and something funny was playing on the TV and she started laughing and saying it was a combination of tickling and hearing the TV that made her laugh. I also like to lightly run my fingers over her ass and to bite it and she tells me she really likes it and she says that it tickles her too. I also told her that sex with her was so much better than sex with my ex because my ex wouldn’t let me do anything I liked to do to her because she was too ticklish. And she told me she was really ticklish too but that being turned on made it more sexual for her.
Finally when we were at the pool together recently I was gently caressing her as I usually do and I got to the underside of her upper arms and she started giggling and pulled away saying “stahhp Im really ticklish there. That’s like near my underarm!”
So based off of my interactions with her I can see she at the basic level likes sensual tickling which I think is great in and of itself. But I would love to tickle her more and tell her about my fetish I am just not too sure how she would react based off of this information. Especially considering the first time she mentioned it where she said she liked being tickled but not “tickled tickled”. She hasn’t really tickled me yet either but she does some of the same stuff to me during foreplay (we are both girls for context) and I react similarly as she does. Does anyone else haven any experience with a partner that likes sensual tickling and had advice on if they were able to open them to more hard tickling?