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Why do guys hide their face on camera when tickling a woman?

A few reasons. A lot of producers, shockingly, are average schlubs. This historically has bothered women who wish there were more attractive men in their tickleporn, and some men who flip the living fuck out when they see a man involved to any extent in their whackoff vids. In addition, most people who film tickle videos do it as a side project, and are terrified about having their identities outed. I assume it stands to reason if you're found being in a tickle video, it can be played off as "wanting money", but if you're found producing them, you've essentially outed yourself. Something a lot of fetishists fear more than anything.

I will add to this point, if I may, that most of the producers wearing masks are male. Point being that unfortunately, every male I have discussed this fetish with has found it is much less acceptable in societal POV for men to have kinks than women. SOOOOOO many of the men I sessioned with were shy/ashamed about tickling because if they were found to have a tickle fetish they were berated or made fun of, whereas women tend to get the opposite reaction. Every time I revealed to someone in a vanilla setting that I have a tickle and BDSM fetish and was super embarrassed about it, they shrugged it off as no big deal or harmless. Same for most of my female friends who have revealed various kinks to partners/friends. That is NOT how it went for the majority of my male friends revealing their kink (tickling or otherwise). Even to a romantic partner! I can only imagine how horrifying it would feel if a boss or coworker recognized them in such a setting, even if nothing were to come of it.
 
I mean I been outed and the identity thing I get which is why I've never done any videos. Not that I'm embarrassed as many know since I was outed, just rather not have to deal with a repeat situation of awkward explanations.

To others points, I have seen probably the same amount of lers and lees wearing masks / hiding their face in videos tbh
 
Fair! It’s why I didn’t do videos either. I’m not embarrassed by it anymore discussion-wise, but early on I would have rather removed a limb than explain to anyone. LOL. Especially if I had been caught doing a video. It’s one thing to be found on a forum or have people notice you like being tickled. It would be a bit more uncomfortable for a coworker to stick a video in your face of you tied down having untoward things done to you.
 
I will add to this point, if I may, that most of the producers wearing masks are male. Point being that unfortunately, every male I have discussed this fetish with has found it is much less acceptable in societal POV for men to have kinks than women. SOOOOOO many of the men I sessioned with were shy/ashamed about tickling because if they were found to have a tickle fetish they were berated or made fun of, whereas women tend to get the opposite reaction. Every time I revealed to someone in a vanilla setting that I have a tickle and BDSM fetish and was super embarrassed about it, they shrugged it off as no big deal or harmless. Same for most of my female friends who have revealed various kinks to partners/friends. That is NOT how it went for the majority of my male friends revealing their kink (tickling or otherwise). Even to a romantic partner! I can only imagine how horrifying it would feel if a boss or coworker recognized them in such a setting, even if nothing were to come of it.

Interesting. I never thought it might be easier for a woman to confess having a kink than for a man.

I try to imagine myself in the same situation. I've sorta "come out" back in high school and it had gone quite well. I got the occasional "you're a psycho" once in a while, but all in all it went okay. I never really "came out" to colleagues but it's because my sexuality is none of their business, not because I feel shy about it :D

Would it be harder for me and easier if I was of the opposite sex? I had never thought that there could be a difference there. I remember from a few female members that it was a bit embarrassing but nothing like it cost them their jobs or their friends. I would imagine it would go down the same way, but I think it depends a lot on the environment. I suppose if a guy works in a very religious or very competitive environment (where any excuse can be used to take down an opponent) I imagine it could be an issue.

I can't say for certain, but this definitely got me thinking, :ty:
 
There are so many factors at play, of course, in people’s reactions. Are there plenty of situations in which a guy was found to have a tickle fetish that it was no big deal? Sure! And plenty of times where women were chastised for it? I bet so! But I have definitely noticed a bias just in the stories I’ve heard from my kinky group of friends.
 
I must say I have NEVER seen a female lee with a mask. I'm not saying it doesn't exist, but I have never encountered that. Conversely, males wearing masks, whether as lers or lees, are all over the place.

I'm not sure about the "that's the deal when you're a model" argument. Aren't males (lers or lees) models too, as long as they are in a vid? At least that's how I see it.

Don't get me wrong, I can understand the need for privacy, but it's the massive disproportion of the male/female camera shyness ratio that surprises me.

The difference is that the person wearing the mask is also the one paying everyone so he gets to say "I'm the exception to the rule." And his boss, which is himself, is going to say "Ok, that sounds reasonable."

If the lee (male or female) wants to insist on wearing a mask, they're free to, but the person paying is also free to say "I think I'll hold out for a model who doesn't mind showing their face."
 
The difference is that the person wearing the mask is also the one paying everyone so he gets to say "I'm the exception to the rule." And his boss, which is himself, is going to say "Ok, that sounds reasonable."

If the lee (male or female) wants to insist on wearing a mask, they're free to, but the person paying is also free to say "I think I'll hold out for a model who doesn't mind showing their face."

Yes, it does make sense. The Internet was patiently trying to explain that to me just now; I think I got it, thanks to you both :ty:
 
I don't quite get this. I'm not all that familiar with UK laws but where I am from it is not reason enough to fire someone :confused:

I understand the need for privacy, but I still don't quite grasp how it is a problem for men and not at all for the women?

Ah I think I understand now. You mean to say that the source of this disproportion is that, while aware of the risk to their privacy, the models waiver it contractually because the employer thinks (reasonably so, as you demonstrated) that it will sell better if they don't obscure their face? If so, it sounds indeed like a possible explanation.

The point is basically that models have to show their face if they're hired for a shoot - that's a big part of how/why they are hired for the job. I wouldn't consider booking a professional model that couldn't show her face on camera. With guys for F/M tickling it is less of an issue because many of the viewers still want to imagine they are that guy. Some people really want to see the male 'lees face but it's far less important and the clips will sell just the same with a masked male 'lee...hence, I can use regular guys who aren't professional models, provided that they are in decent shape and ticklish etc. On the other hand, I wouldn't expect to sell a single clip of a masked female model being tickled and so I need professionals. Similarly, not showing my face as the tickler doesn't affect clip sales at all - literally, no one has ever said 'I would buy that clip if I could only see your face...'

In addition, models are used to having their faces out there on the internet so they are less shy about that. Some models are less comfortable being seen in a fetish scenario (particularly if it's on the edge of the levels they're comfortable working to) but will do it for a fetish site or clip store which has a specific audience. The problems for those models arise when people go and post their clips and images on more mainstream sites such as Youtube, Facebook and then friends, family, their kid's friend's parents, etc get to see. For some, this can be a massive problem and can drive them away. I've known models to have their personal accounts hacked and every risque thing they've ever shot posted to all their contacts.



Has this ever happened to any woman that's worked for you before? The majority of your output seems very "classy" as far as tickling videos go, so that comes as a surprise that it's cost people jobs.

Again, most models are already kind of out there doing other fetish/glamour/nude modelling anyway so it usually means they are either not doing other work or not doing work where it would be much of an issue. Those for whom it can be an issue tend to be more guarded about their actual identities and I will do my best to help with that. One of my regular models has a pretty respectable management position for the local authority in my area (her partner is a police officer too) and I know it's concerning for her, although she only shoots for me now and so far nothing has come back.

Quite a few models stopped shooting because they were worried about issues around work. Many have had other personal issues - typically, pissed off boyfriends, parents and other family members seeing their clips, particularly on pornhub.
 
Sorry must have missed but what happened to Prya?

Found on PornHub, work and family found out, almost fired and god knows how humiliated she was with her friends and relatives. Basically the absolute worst case scenario.
 
Found on PornHub, work and family found out, almost fired and god knows how humiliated she was with her friends and relatives. Basically the absolute worst case scenario.
Legally, how can that be grounds for termination?

It's kind of insane how many times we've all had this conversation before. It's getting to the point where I wonder how many people on this forum are underage and not even legally supposed to be here. Some of these comments and questions sound like they come from the mind of a 10 year old.
 
Legally, how can that be grounds for termination?

It's kind of insane how many times we've all had this conversation before. It's getting to the point where I wonder how many people on this forum are underage and not even legally supposed to be here. Some of these comments and questions sound like they come from the mind of a 10 year old.

Depends on the employment contract (if there is one), employment status, and the applicable laws. Some places, they don't need a reason.
 
Depends on the employment contract (if there is one), employment status, and the applicable laws. Some places, they don't need a reason.

Yeah, plenty of states have that right to work law or whatever it's called, can fire you on the spot with no reason. Has happened to me. "Your position has been eliminated." lol No notice at all.
 
Yeah, plenty of states have that right to work law or whatever it's called, can fire you on the spot with no reason. Has happened to me. "Your position has been eliminated." lol No notice at all.

Yup. The company I work for is about 70% "contractors", which is common now in tech start-ups. That way, they don't have to offer benefits or handle payroll taxes.
 
they hide there face cause most of the guys you see tickling a female as most say are ugly and also because they suck at tickling a female and don't want to be known as the ler that can't tickle

Edgy.
 
I mean don't get me wrong, tickling videos are amazing to see. But what I don't know is why do ticklers wear masks, blur their face, or heck, make the camera angle different so the tickler's face isn't shown. For example, I see a tickler wear a batman mask which was silly and its from Realtickling.

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