anonymous44
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Hello, I would like some advice.
I have been reading this forum occasionally but I am quite shy about posting, and I have made this account for some advice.
I am a female 'ticklee' as you say it, and being tickled is quite a big fantasy/fetish for me. Unfortunately, I have a few problems.
Firstly, my boyfriend who I have been with for over a year has known for around this amount of time also about my fetish. He himself doesn't really have any fetishes, apart from the generic male 'I like a good blowjob' thing, and although he tries his best to please me when he does tickle me, it is only for a few minutes, or here and there, mostly as a starter to sex. I have tried getting him to tickle me more and he does try, but I feel it is unjust of me to always ask for something when there is nothing really I can do in return to please him, fetish-wise.
That is not the main problem. The main problem is that, 90% of the time that he tickles me, it just doesn't actually tickle. I don't know if it is me (it would be very ironic, having a tickling fetish but not actually being ticklish) or if it is the way he is tickling me. Sometimes if goes at my sides it is ticklish for a few seconds but then it just ends up being more like him poking me in the ribs. I tend to laugh anyway because I don't want to discourage him from trying. Other areas are slightly ticklish when he goes for them, but again most of the feeling dies down within a few seconds.
The third thing is that I know that my feet are probably the most ticklish part, and I would love for him to try there. Unfortunately as he is not a foot kind of guy he doesn't really go near them, even though I try make them as attractive as possible... I know feet aren't very attractive in the first place anyway. The only time he does is if I am riding him but by then we are into the very sweaty sex stage and he is not really concentrating... just kind of scrabbling to try please me... but it doesn't do much.
So I would like some advice on what to do. Is there any way I can make myself more ticklish? Or any way that I can persuade him to maybe try using tools or something without going into the 'this is a weird fetish' zone... (one of my fantasies is to be completely tied up and tickled with all kinds of tools. I have hinted this to him but I think he thinks it is weird, so I haven't pressed so much).
Thank you for any replies.
PS: If your advice is 'leave him' then don't bother writing that, because love is more important than a fetish.
I have been reading this forum occasionally but I am quite shy about posting, and I have made this account for some advice.
I am a female 'ticklee' as you say it, and being tickled is quite a big fantasy/fetish for me. Unfortunately, I have a few problems.
Firstly, my boyfriend who I have been with for over a year has known for around this amount of time also about my fetish. He himself doesn't really have any fetishes, apart from the generic male 'I like a good blowjob' thing, and although he tries his best to please me when he does tickle me, it is only for a few minutes, or here and there, mostly as a starter to sex. I have tried getting him to tickle me more and he does try, but I feel it is unjust of me to always ask for something when there is nothing really I can do in return to please him, fetish-wise.
That is not the main problem. The main problem is that, 90% of the time that he tickles me, it just doesn't actually tickle. I don't know if it is me (it would be very ironic, having a tickling fetish but not actually being ticklish) or if it is the way he is tickling me. Sometimes if goes at my sides it is ticklish for a few seconds but then it just ends up being more like him poking me in the ribs. I tend to laugh anyway because I don't want to discourage him from trying. Other areas are slightly ticklish when he goes for them, but again most of the feeling dies down within a few seconds.
The third thing is that I know that my feet are probably the most ticklish part, and I would love for him to try there. Unfortunately as he is not a foot kind of guy he doesn't really go near them, even though I try make them as attractive as possible... I know feet aren't very attractive in the first place anyway. The only time he does is if I am riding him but by then we are into the very sweaty sex stage and he is not really concentrating... just kind of scrabbling to try please me... but it doesn't do much.
So I would like some advice on what to do. Is there any way I can make myself more ticklish? Or any way that I can persuade him to maybe try using tools or something without going into the 'this is a weird fetish' zone... (one of my fantasies is to be completely tied up and tickled with all kinds of tools. I have hinted this to him but I think he thinks it is weird, so I haven't pressed so much).
Thank you for any replies.
PS: If your advice is 'leave him' then don't bother writing that, because love is more important than a fetish.