Am i getting old or does anyone else find the term MILF really insulting?
A good friend of mine in England is a very young (middle class) grandfather as his somewhat anarchic daughter had a child at 17.
She and her son's father are still very happy together and the kid's now a terrific nine year old.
Said friend's wife is a very beautiful, educated woman who joked that she'd feel better about the whole premature promotion to grandma if she knew she'd always be considered a 'GILF'.
But that's the British for you.
The term's a bit crude, although it's less insulting than "cougar", but as has been pointed out, WTF is used fairly often, and most people don't get all bent out of shape about it.
I don't use the term myself, because there are so many other words out there that are more precise.
But i'ts baffling and more than a little comical to me that guys can turn squeamish and pearl-clutchy at that very idea that a woman who's had a child is still sexually attractive, and maybe even (horrors!) sexually active.
Let's face it Bob, even most of the GILFs are younger than we are at this point.I find it humorous that all the "MILFs" referred to are younger than me!
Am i getting old or does anyone else find the term MILF really insulting?
Since the term has been around since American Pie came out in 1999 and you are are now offended I'd say it's probably due to this new fake outrage cancel culture pandemic raging across the globe. When the right people get offended by porn because it's offensive to women and want to cancel it you will change your tune.
Maybe I’m just a prude these days. I’ve done enough crazy-ass sexual shit in my life up to this point to start a new chapter. ��