Maybe I'm misunderstanding the term, but I've always thought kinky meant you are into some of the stuff like bondage, some level of "torture", using sex toys etc.
By that definition, I've never considered myself kinky. I'm very gentle and sensual. I LOVE tickling! Turns me on like nothing else can. Like it in lots of different forms, just not the aggressive/torture/humiliation stuff. Although I can get into some humiliation stuff if it's between myself and a woman I'm romantically involved with and we're consensually roleplaying.
By that definition, I've never considered myself kinky. I'm very gentle and sensual. I LOVE tickling! Turns me on like nothing else can. Like it in lots of different forms, just not the aggressive/torture/humiliation stuff. Although I can get into some humiliation stuff if it's between myself and a woman I'm romantically involved with and we're consensually roleplaying.