How do you try to find out someone is one of us?

I usually find out on accident.

I think the last person I found out about was 19 or in his early 20s. We were working a show together, and he would NOT get out of my way. I quickly tickled him (which was nicer than shoving him) and his face lit up in a way that I instantly recognized. It was like looking in a mirror.

Then I realized that day that he was ALWAYS trying to put himself into situations/ positions where he could be tickled. At which point, I never tickled him again (because I didn't want ANYONE on the show to know I was ticklish. I don't think I would have escaped that show alive if they knew. And because... I don't know. It scared me. LOL LOL!)

-Sunny

I realized I didn't even answer your question....

It's hard! Even when I've been honest, I often ran into guys (even through fetish sites) whom weren't really into it, and thought it was easy foreplay for sex. (which never worked out for them....) :-D

So- I think honesty is still the best bet.

I did have one boyfriend who I am 99% sure was into it, but that was before I fully knew that it was something to be into. We had a tumultuous relationship, so even now, I can't very well confirm my suspicions.

I ended up finding the perfect person for me over the years through TMF. Believe it or not, it was his love for music that first grabbed my attention. I would start a lyric and he would finish it and vice versa. We still do that.

time_of_your3 said:

Just curious how you go about doing this in a discreet way?

I personally love to laugh but that (I dont think) has anything to do with my fetish...

As a female, pretty much EVERY guy I’ve dated would tickle me whether or not I told him I like it, but I don’t think I ever dated one of us...I think it was (and is) a part of flirting.

What are your techniques to spot one out??

I don’t think I’ve ever met one...

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I haven't found a way, yet! Like you, I think most guys would tickle us whether they were into it or not