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So a while back I was going to play with someone new and told them I am not wanting sex. Just tickling and I'd be ok with a hand job. I specifically told them no oral or penetration.
They have me tied down and tickle me for a while, i'm blind folded and we're both having a good time. They start gently stroking my cock and driving me crazy and before I can anything they have their mouth on me and make me cum in their mouth.
They said they thought I was joking...
Has anyone had an experience like this when only wanting hands and tickling? What's best way to handle this?
I guess I'm confused... Why in the hell would you NOT want a BJ? I could see if you didn't want to have to give one, but get one?
Let me start by saying that fghjkdlcbv, I am so sorry that that happened to you!! That is absolutely horrible!
Secondly Robmic, because some of us, like myself for one, are on the asexual spectrum for a start! I am an ace man and I am personally completely sex repulsed. For me personally, if anyone and I do literally mean ANYONE, did that to me I would be completely and utterly mortified and feel violated beyond belief! But more importantly what baffles me is why that should even matter. The person in question made their boundaries clear and it was violated. It doesn't matter, "that they thought it was a joke." That is breaking consent. That is rape. End of story. Even if they thought it was a joke or it was a misunderstanding, you have every right to feel violated and angry fghjkdlcbv. And if there was a miscommunication, something awful still happened and someone was clearly still victimized here. I for one am not going to sit here and try to justify someone else's shitty behavior or question someone's boundaries. I just sincerely hope that you are alright fghjkdlcbv and if you need someone to talk to I'm sadly not on this forum often these days but still feel free to reach out because what happened was wrong and I'm sorry!
I guess I'm confused... Why in the hell would you NOT want a BJ? I could see if you didn't want to have to give one, but get one?
He could be germophobic. I know I have my on/off episodes.
Or he could just not be into that. At the end of the day, what his reason is doesn't have anything to do with what happened.
His reasoning was clear to him, what it sounded like to them is the issue. That's really what I'm trying to get to the heart of. If you can't effectively communicate, you'll end up disappointed. Sad truth.
I guess I'm confused... Why in the hell would you NOT want a BJ? I could see if you didn't want to have to give one, but get one?
Or he could just not be into that. At the end of the day, what his reason is doesn't have anything to do with what happened.