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How soon is too soon?

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ninefive

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Would a second date be too early to tickle a girl? I'm not talking full-blown session, more like something innocent like grabbing or poking sides while her back is turned.

How did you slip in innocent tickles during early dates?
 
I would say it depends on how tactile you and the girl have been with each other up to that point. If you've already kissed/cuddled it could be natural to give her a tickle if she teases you.
If you haven't touched yet I would not grab her, especially not if her back is turned. Just mind her reaction and see if she likes it. Consent is everything :). Good luck!
 
I found/guessed no expectations about when is ok vs too soon. With some girls I tried a quick tickle on the first date, but usually it was the 2nd or 3rd. My most common ways were either to playfully "get her" if she was being a brat or withholding a secret, or to offer a foot rub and take some experimental license. ;)

But I have to disagree with the 'not innocent' take. On a date in general, there is no doubt that sex is typically the ultimate intent of at least one party. That does not make it remotely acceptable to go too far or too fast. So we begin by talking, holding hands, etc. Those initial acts are innocent in the sense of being ok; NOT too sexual. Should be the same with first tickles. Minor. Not overdone or alarming - so similarly not themselves sexual. One of us may find it attractive, but that seems little different than approaching the girl in the first place because we think she's cute!
 
I would try tickling her on the first date. If she's either not ticklish or really hates it, there's no need for a second date. ;)
 
If just tickling the gal is your only motive, why bother? Find out more about her, what she may like.... may take a few dates, but so? Otherwise, might as well go to a dungeon that has gals willing to be tickled, or find an escort for the same. Give the gals some respect.
 
I would only engage in any form of physical contact when it's understood to be desired by both of you.
 
It's just tickling, you don't have to overthink it. When it comes to women, you have to make your intentions known immediately to not have your time wasted. Women don't make men wait they're sexually attracted to, so getting sexual shows how high or low her interest level is. Even if you actually want to be in a relationship you have to be sexual to find out whether she's actually interested in or not, also to find out if you have any sexual chemistry.
 
Sensualswitch10 said:
I would try tickling her on the first date. If she's either not ticklish or really hates it, there's no need for a second date. ;)
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This LOL

But seriously....these days are way different than back in the 80's and 90's when I was in my "dating" phase. Back then it woulda been cool to do a playful tickle on a first date if you already were friends and knew her. But these days be very careful as you may get called a rapist, a molester or some other untrue bullshit.

Just take it in stride and if it seems like there's physical connection going on, then go for it. If not, I wouldn't do it.
 
(In *this* world ;) ) If you think about how you may be able to manage to feel on the person before you know their last name on the first vanilla date, you just might be that molester :)
 
rdhd said:
If just tickling the gal is your only motive, why bother? Find out more about her, what she may like.... may take a few dates, but so? Otherwise, might as well go to a dungeon that has gals willing to be tickled, or find an escort for the same. Give the gals some respect.
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I would prefer not to waste my time going on a bunch of dates with someone I'm not compatible with. I'd imagine the lady would feel much the same. Not sure how you concluded "just tickling the gal" was the OP's only motive.
 
It just depends on the date. If you're getting a good vibe from the girl and she seems to be comfortable with you, then a playful tickle on the first date will probably be ok as long as you're not touching her in an intimate place.

A playful tickle on the neck, arm, stomach, leg or foot is probably fair game. Just don't be weird about it.
 
ninefive said:
Would a second date be too early to tickle a girl? I'm not talking full-blown session, more like something innocent like grabbing or poking sides while her back is turned.

How did you slip in innocent tickles during early dates?
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As soon as she initiates some kind of playful physical contact, that’s a pretty clear sign she’s okay with a similar response. Compliment her in a way that makes her laugh, and when she leans in to playfully smack your shoulder, poke her in the side. Never gotten a bad response from that.

Also, there’s no harm in casually dating someone who’s not ticklish or isn’t into it on the same level; casual dating increases your social circle, and you never know who you might meet through them.
 
if you have kissed or held hands and she seems comfortable, hell yes its time,,make it fun tho, nothing creepy,, like maybe when you lean in and kiss her just lightly tickle her sides or something and just giggle w her, ,, then poss tell her her giggle is sexy as hell,,,then each time w her just small tickles,, then once you are 100% intimate then id say its fine to tell her that tickling her & her laugh is a huge turnon,, baby steps but don't ever hide it,,make it normal & fun! Good luck, keep us posted
ninefive said:
Would a second date be too early to tickle a girl? I'm not talking full-blown session, more like something innocent like grabbing or poking sides while her back is turned.

How did you slip in innocent tickles during early dates?
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MrMacphisto said:
It just depends on the date. If you're getting a good vibe from the girl and she seems to be comfortable with you, then a playful tickle on the first date will probably be ok as long as you're not touching her in an intimate place.

A playful tickle on the neck, arm, stomach, leg or foot is probably fair game. Just don't be weird about it.
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Agreed.

In my younger days, I wasn’t as outgoing as I am now and it led to a LOT of missed opportunities.

I did tickle a girl on a first date once, and nothing bad came of it. We were both movie buffs, and hit up a local Blockbuster knock-off. I went to look for something in the horror section, while she was looking at comedies.

I didn’t see the movie I wanted so I headed her way. I managed to sneak up on her, and tickled her sides. She let out a laugh, then turned around and playfully slapped me. I got in a couple more tickles later, and she actually seemed to enjoy it.
 
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