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Is Tickling Fetish Worse Than Murder?

dskodj

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So, I was looking to order a custom through a website that has amateurs doing video and audio. I tried 2 different gals so far that were supposed to be "open to any and all fetishes".

And would you know, they were interested to take my business when I contacted them, but the second I mentioned foot tickling fetish - dead silence never to be heard from again and never replied with even an "i'm not interested"!

They act like I wanted them to fuck their dog or murder someone. I simply don't get it.

Either these 2 ladies were vanilla posing as so called fetish friendly, or is tickling really worse than murder? You tell me lol
 
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yeah sadly I tend to get the same responses on Kink apps/sites haha - all interested until I mention the specific fetish haha - Similar most will seem to have that open-minded "I'll try anything" mentality. Masochists especially. 1 women seriously told me she'd rather be beaten half to death than the thought of someone tickling her. so yeah... almost murder at least smh lol
 
Yeah, I always found it ironic that so many porn stars who were open to being fisted in every orifice would draw the line at being tickled. Some people just find it unbearable.
 
Tickling is just not their thing. Time to move on. And if they're bitchy about it instead of politely declining, don't let it get to you. It's nothing personal.
 
For me tickling is not something for casual encounters, It needs to be passionate (gf or close friend) or professional (mistress/master). I don't have a thing for casual one nights with tickling, maybe for foot fetish i'm ok, but for tickling I need more that a friendship.
 
Not worse than murder but people in general HATE tickling. It is very hard to find willing participants. In my experience it’s been mostly women I’ve dated or actual fetishized models that have done tickling. And even some fetish models I had to convince and say hey you know tickling videos sell really really well. Point is it’s a battle, it’s never gonna be easy but hang in there stay patient


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I don't think it's too difficult to find people open-minded about tickling.
 
I haven't tried to commission any tickling videos, but as far as interactions with women go, most women I've dated weren't into tickling other than to the extent that they knew I liked it. I've never dated a girl who refused to let me tickle her, and some found it fun.

A more common problem for me is that some of the women I've dated were either not ticklish at all or barely ticklish. Then again, a lot of the less ticklish girls ended up being ones that were turned on by certain touches. I was with one girl, for example, who was turned on by foot massages. That was a pleasant surprise.

I would assume any woman in the fetish industry that is willing to receive pain but can't stand tickling must be incredibly ticklish.
 
There's a lot of folks looking for easy money. Once you hit on a genuine article, it's all good.
I used to advertise for models for tickling videos, what a horn of plenty. Back in the days of Backpage and Craigslist adult section.
Don't know where to post now, as I have a girlfriend now who's into all that stuff. She's having orgasms after 5 minutes of having her toes sucked on. Am I a lucky guy? Did God grant my wish? You betcha buddy.
Shopping has gotten difficult lately, with the Facebook generation, and them lame women who think they can make thousands by just showing their feet, but more intimate contact, which all humans need, forget it. Just give me money, fuck them, life is short.
But don't give up, it's out there. I know.
 
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I would assume any woman in the fetish industry that is willing to receive pain but can't stand tickling must be incredibly ticklish.

No, not true.

People that enjoy pain are at root sensualists. They like physical stimulation, and find it arousing, based on how their body reacts to it.

Pain delivers a specific physical response to the body, which in turn produces a specific set of chemicals in the body. People who like pain are basically enjoying the chemical response their body has to it.

Tickling does not deliver pain, but like pain it causes distress. The fact that the distress arises from a different basis makes it a different creature in most peoples eyes to experience. To the outsider it looks like both pain and tickling cause them distress so what's the issue? The issue is the tickling does cause the distress but none of the chemical responses that they like. So to them it just is sucky distress with no happy chemical chaser. And that equals a big fat no thanks.

The pain lovers are probably no more or less ticklish than the statistical averages for the population. They just don't like distress with no payoff.

As for the topic, historically tickling is an activity that a huge number of people who play seriously in the BDSM community will flat out refuse to receive. They just get nothing positive from it. So it's not surprising that many of these sex workers have similar reservations, in that it's just not worth the cash to do it when they can make the same from other clients that have likes they enjoy or are neutral to.

As a poster said, it's not personal. Just move on to another and ask again.

Myriads
 
No, not true.

People that enjoy pain are at root sensualists. They like physical stimulation, and find it arousing, based on how their body reacts to it.

Pain delivers a specific physical response to the body, which in turn produces a specific set of chemicals in the body. People who like pain are basically enjoying the chemical response their body has to it.

Tickling does not deliver pain, but like pain it causes distress. The fact that the distress arises from a different basis makes it a different creature in most peoples eyes to experience. To the outsider it looks like both pain and tickling cause them distress so what's the issue? The issue is the tickling does cause the distress but none of the chemical responses that they like. So to them it just is sucky distress with no happy chemical chaser. And that equals a big fat no thanks.

The pain lovers are probably no more or less ticklish than the statistical averages for the population. They just don't like distress with no payoff.

As for the topic, historically tickling is an activity that a huge number of people who play seriously in the BDSM community will flat out refuse to receive. They just get nothing positive from it. So it's not surprising that many of these sex workers have similar reservations, in that it's just not worth the cash to do it when they can make the same from other clients that have likes they enjoy or are neutral to.

As a poster said, it's not personal. Just move on to another and ask again.

Myriads

It is true that pain produces specific neurochemicals in response, but so does any significant physical stimuli. Distress (and any other emotional response) also produces neurochemicals.
 
They act like I wanted them to fuck their dog or murder someone.

Absolute false dichotomy.

These women did not in any way act like you "wanted them to fuck their dog". They simply didn't respond to you. Everything else, you made up in your head.

It's not uncommon for models to simply stop responding if they're not interested in your business. It kinda sucks, but it mainly happens because people (like you) try to argue around them when they state their boundaries, so they simply don't bother.

So no, tickling is not worse than murder. You invented that comparison to "sell" this thread.
 
Very cool to see everyone's take on this. And probably I should have stated this....for the custom I had asked for, there was no "real" tickling involved so to speak. It was nothing more than role play. That's what prompted me to start this discussion.

It was that the subject of tickling itself was reacted to as some huge taboo or something.

If I was asking for REAL tickling, THAT I get isn't for everyone and wouldn't have felt the need to start a discussion. :upsidedow
 
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Ghosting is really immature and needs to stop, frankly, in all aspects of life. Adults say "no" and then cut communication; they don't just ditch.
 
Absolute false dichotomy.

These women did not in any way act like you "wanted them to fuck their dog". They simply didn't respond to you. Everything else, you made up in your head.

It's not uncommon for models to simply stop responding if they're not interested in your business. It kinda sucks, but it mainly happens because people (like you) try to argue around them when they state their boundaries, so they simply don't bother.

So no, tickling is not worse than murder. You invented that comparison to "sell" this thread.

I wasn't going to even reply to this trolling flame bait....but just wanted to point out that there was nothing argued with anyone or any boundaries stated by the virtual sex workers.

They asked what I wanted for custom, I told them, and BAM, ghost time. Didn't even get a "not interested" reply (nor did I contact them again)...which brings it back to the whole point of my post....is tickling worse than murder?
 
Ghosting is really immature and needs to stop, frankly, in all aspects of life. Adults say "no" and then cut communication; they don't just ditch.

Amen to this in all subjects of life!
 
Amen to this in all subjects of life!

They didn't want your business, and obviously didn't feel it necessary to discuss it any further.
They weren't under any obligation to continue the communication.
 
I'll take tickling fetish all day, every day, over all the other weird fetish's out there.
 
I wasn't going to even reply to this trolling flame bait....but just wanted to point out that there was nothing argued with anyone or any boundaries stated by the virtual sex workers.

They asked what I wanted for custom, I told them, and BAM, ghost time. Didn't even get a "not interested" reply (nor did I contact them again)...which brings it back to the whole point of my post....is tickling worse than murder?

You know I understand being frustrated with being ghosted, but what I can't understand is how you go from being ghosted to "is tickling worse than murder?" You know people ghost people for all sorts of reasons, the least of which is some people are just fucking lazy. The only person calling it "worse than murder" is you, which seemly highly overly dramatic if you ask me, and makes me wonder if you did not play a role in them ghosting you. Look, I wasn't there, so I have no idea what the fuck happened. The only version we have is yours, which I mentioned above seems histrionical. Therefore, it is hard to take this very seriously.
 
You know I understand being frustrated with being ghosted, but what I can't understand is how you go from being ghosted to "is tickling worse than murder?" You know people ghost people for all sorts of reasons, the least of which is some people are just fucking lazy. The only person calling it "worse than murder" is you, which seemly highly overly dramatic if you ask me

Christ...the analogy was meant to be over dramatic/humorous. I don't get why people are thinking i'm so upset over this? lol People take things way too serious and literal over here anymore. It's like any thread about anything seems to turn into some uncalled for drama or attempted flame war. Makes no sense.

Anyway, i'm saying no more in this thread and maybe a mod should just close it.
 
Sadly one or two deem us all as monsters/weirdos/freaks of nature etc etc but the truth be told were probably the nicest community of folk on the planet.
I would deem some vanilla folk as people to avoid!
 
Christ...the analogy was meant to be over dramatic/humorous. I don't get why people are thinking i'm so upset over this? lol People take things way too serious and literal over here anymore. It's like any thread about anything seems to turn into some uncalled for drama or attempted flame war. Makes no sense.
Anyway, i'm saying no more in this thread and maybe a mod should just close it.

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They act like I wanted them to fuck their dog or murder someone. I simply don't get it.

Right...everyone else is overreacting to the situation.
They didn't want to do what you wanted, and they didn't want to have a conversation with you about why.
Move along, already.
 
I wasn't going to even reply to this trolling flame bait....but just wanted to point out that there was nothing argued with anyone or any boundaries stated by the virtual sex workers.

They asked what I wanted for custom, I told them, and BAM, ghost time. Didn't even get a "not interested" reply (nor did I contact them again)...which brings it back to the whole point of my post....is tickling worse than murder?

In all honesty, it probably just sounded too difficult to set up, too tedious, and not likely to pay enough to justify their time. Most models can get by selling basic JOI clips where they literally sit on their bed and talk to a camera (or a phone) for five minutes. Anything more just gets complicated so unless you're offering them a ton of money I wouldn't be surprised to get ghosted on a regular basis. Chances are they've had countless other custom requests that are a lot easier to shoot, and so they just lost interest and/or forgot about yours.

Very rarely do I find models that are 'too scared' to try tickling. I find plenty (especially nowadays) that don't want to shoot unless it's seriously worth their while. It's completely normal.
 
That Preeti gal, not the most ticklish girl on the planet by any means, but damn her body is absolutely phenomenal.
 
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