Help! Worried that I am no longer ticklish!

I used to be really ticklish when I was dating and when I first got married. I used to love being tied up and tickled and it was great. But I haven't done it in years and years. My partner and I tried it today, and when she started to try to tickle me, I felt nothing. Not even a giggle. It just kind of felt pokey and silly. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Try having a couple of drinks and see if the ticklishness comes back? Maybe you're just really stressed or tired?

I wouldn't worry too much about it. kinkykurt is right to ask in the first place about whether you have factors that were affecting your mood at the time.

While most of us like the idea of people (or ourselves) being helplessly ticklish at the merest touch, the truth is that mindset has a lot to do with it. For example, experiments show that people laugh more readily when tickled by someone they know, hence are more comfortable with.

Try varying up the techniques being used. Maybe have a glass of wine. It also wouldn't hurt for your partner to get you in a giggly mood to induce a genuine feeling of "you're in trouble" before the physical aspects take place.

Try being tickled after an orgasm ..... always more ticklish all over !

Hypnosis works.