It's not as if you want to eat her underwear, lie under a glass table while she poos on you, bugger little boys or dig up and ravish a three-weeks-buried corpse. As 'perversions' go, we're bloody fortunate to have this one. Now that I've finally grown up I realise that the embarrassment I felt for so much of my life over this kink was ridiculous.
Some women won't like it. Some women simply won't like YOU, and that's the way of the world.
Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to assert your constitutional right to the pursuit of happiness, get out of the basement, and start chasing it.
In an urbane and elegant manner, of course. Women worth pursuing will appreciate that approach.
Remember that it won't work every time but that's life. Be decent about it, make the effort, cope with the inevitable rejections like a 'mensch'*, and above all, don't fall back on the (every one of those complete losers deserves to be shot) incel community for company or comfort.
You can't base a relationship on sex. Or a single kink. So learn to converse by starting innocuous conversations with five attractive women a day, and by the end of the week, along with a few horrendously humiliating memories, you'll have a few phone numbers and the makings of a few vanillas to convert.
That's how I would up married for the past 15 years to a delighted semi-vanilla convert 27 years my junior.
But I fully admit to taking a deep breath and gathering my courage before I first spoke to her because I'd been shot down in flames many times in the past while attempting a 'social' life. And for the first month she wouldn't even take my arm.
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?337614-One-of-my-birthday-presents-to-Libertine
Miracles do happen. Not always, or they wouldn't be called miracles, but sometimes.
Don't lose heart and good luck.
*
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mensch
As usual, Libertine has given sage advice. He is a mensch. 
