Why do we focus on the lee and not the Ler?

Emberr · Jan 24, 2022

bellyticklerBR said:
Great discussion, I totally agree, we should focus more on the ler, for me a good ler is the one who makes the lee not feel insecure but also take the ticklishness at the most, being dominant without being invasive or rude, it involves lots of factors that I also miss the discussion here, great post.

Exactly! I also think we don't give Lers much credit or attention, tbh. I feel bad for the Lers who have participated in my vids bc most of my followers focus on me (which I get but also wanna ensure my Lers are also getting praise). I think people don't realize that part of a lee's sensitivity DOES depend on the Ler. I've had Lers go too hard and it ended up hurting not tickling even tho they said, "but it works on others". SMH lol A skilled Ler knows that each body is different and therefore, responds differently to touch. In addition, the Lers who I have become emotionally intimate with also heightens my sensitivity by 100x- so the Ler is so key!!

gafoottickler · Feb 4, 2022

Emberr said:
Yes!!! Lighter touches are so lethal!! I think so many Lers focus on what they want rather than what might get the best reactions out of the Lee.

Emberr nailed it once again. As a ler, if you focus on the reaction and enjoyment of the lee; listen to her body and understand...the experience will be amazing.