kis123 said:
*kis gives standing ovation and does the happy dance on your behalf*
Now, it's time to spill it! Those of us who are struggling would like to hear your secrets of success. PM me anytime if you don't want to divulge in public.
Congratulations and continued success in your weight loss goals!
I'm happy to share my secrets and if it helps one person, that's great.
As I think I mentioned in a previous thread, I didn't really change my diet as much as change the TIME OF DAY I ate. My achillies heel was that I would always indulge in a late night snack and go right to bed afterwards. Bad move, when you are sleeping is when you burn the least amount of calories coupled with the fact that I ate probably the most I ate all day is enough to ensure that your midnight snack would be banked with blubber. I usuually eat the most in the morning so I have my day to day activities to burn the calories, which are pretty extensive. I have two kids to start. Another thing I did was that I went to the gym during my lunch hour instead if eating a hero, soda and bag of chips. Not only was I burning calories instead of ingesting them but with the midday excercise program, I am actually more alert in the afternoon when everyone gets that urge for a 3:00 PM nap. Plus, I have a high stress job so the excercise helps me cope with the job related stress as well. I am now at the point where if I miss a day at the gym, I feel like I am actually letting myself go. I have a new addiction now, instead of food, like it was in my heavier days, I now am addicted to excercise. One thing I reccomend if you do the excercise route-find a partner to help keep you motivated. My source of motivation was a trainer that befriended me when I first started. He was always good for encouragement and was very knowledgable as well. What keeps me going these days is the positive feedback I get from my friends and family about my appearance and co workers about my performance on the job and personality as well . Not to mention that I feel 100 times better. When I get that urge for a nosh, I think about how hard I have worked and how I feel right now as well as how my clothes feel on me. I also look at a picture that was taken when I was heavier and say to myself, "no way do I want to look like that again".
AFA goals, I don't really have a set weight in mind. I just want to take it in increments of 10 pounds and see how I feel and take it from there. I know I won't be at my high school weight ever again (one reason is that I was about 4 inches shorter in HS than I am now-6'1" vs 6'5").
I don't want to try to pass myself off as an expert, but if anybody ever wants to talk to me about what they are doing and what they want to do, please feel free and I'll be happy to try to help. You can PM me if you want to keep it private.
Good luck to those fighting the battle of the bulge. I know with me, it's a never ending battle. I have a high maintenance body.