So I am new to the community, but I have had this fetish as long as I could remember. I would like to enjoy it with someone, but I have no idea where to even begin. I am typically a ler but I think I would like to switch sometimes too.
If I were you, I’d peruse the various posts, and if you find any that sound like your particular interests, send those persons a private message, and enjoy some conversation on the topic.
You could also check out the Personals section, broken out by location (Midwestern states, etc.). You can chat with some great people, get to know them, and take it from there. Good luck!