flirting or no? weigh in!

[banddmagic1]

so I was at an meeting last night with a group I am apart of...we are basically all friendly acquaintances, don't know each other well or long...I'm new, so we've only seen each other in person with masks on... there were 2 different girls that said something to me, and wanted to know if they are flirting/seem attracted to me. I'm not exactly single, so I am not going to act on anything, but more just curious, as I'm not good at reading these things.

1. I was talking to someone and said something that was misheard by a girl as "big dick". She turned and said "did you just say "big dick?" and i'm like...haha no. that's not something I would just go around saying, and she responded with. "Just announce it to everyone" haha. I'm wondering because...it's a longer conversation focused on my penis than normal, and she attached the "big dick" reference to me, and not just in general

2. As I said, in masks, and I pulled mine down a few times to eat/drink, and a girl randomly came up to me and said "do you know what John said? He was like "Oh, do you know who I didn't realize, but is really handsome? Brett!" We talked about how it's funny how we don't really get to see each other's faces ever etc, and as she talked to me she was very friendly and rubbed my bicep.

what do you think? obvious flirting? making it known they are attracted? just random?

 

[MrMacphisto]

I would say #2 is definitely flirting. #1 is just kind of random. It could be flirting, but maybe she was just trying to be funny.

 

[hoseman2248]

If she rubbed your bicep she was flirting. Number 2 was absolutely flirting but don't take it as she was indicating she wanted sex. Girls like to play head games.