Ler Leaning Married Guy needs your advise

[tickleeindia]

Hello Everyone,

I am a 30 years old married guy from India. I have been interested in tickling even as a child and it grew into a fetish as I entered my teens. I was quite ticklish as a child and was strictly a Lee for most of my life. As with many other Indians, I was never in a relationship before marriage (my marriage was an arranged one). So, to explore my fetish, I hired a dominatrix to tickle me (much before I was married). Unfortunately, it turned out that I had lost my ticklishness. Consequently, I started leaning more towards being a ler.

Got married two years back. I never quite discussed my fetish with my wife before I got married. I opened up regarding it after we were married and she is quite understanding of it. The sad part is she is not ticklish. Also, when she feels ticklish (sometimes), she doesn't enjoy it. She has tried tickling me but as I mentioned before, I am not ticklish either! This has made me frustrated to some bit. I want to experience tickling (as a Lee and a ler) but I can't!

I have even thought about hiring someone whom I can tickle. But, it seems unethical to me. What should I do?

PS : I love my wife.

 

[Wesker28]

My advice to you would be perhaps try and find a way to make you and your wife ticklish again. You said she is sometimes, so that to me implies it might be a mental thing with her.

 

[Aimee]

Well.. this was an interesting read!

What are the odds both of you are not ticklish! Anyways, hats off to your wife for letting you indulge in tickling with you!

But as for your question... I think you will find that answer rests with what your wife wants. And that is a serious discussion. You mentioned when she is ticklish, she doesn't like it. So has she expressed interest in wanting to Ler with you with another person? If not, is she 100% okay letting you do it? That is a really fine line. It'd be one thing if she was into tickling with you and wanted to tag team with ya on a lee.

I'm not sure what answer you are seeking here on TMF, but the one who holds the final say in this is your wife & how comfortable she is with the whole thing.