What I am asking is do you think my tickling fetish is making me feel this way? Almost as if someone is tickling my gf.
Relax, the love doctor is in.
So here’s what I’m getting out of this. You’re in love, deeply. Tickling is not just your fetish, it’s something that you both enjoy doing together.
You associate tickling with intimacy, and because of that hearing someone make her laugh bothers you. It’s common actually, lots of people become jealous when they hear someone else making their boyfriend or girlfriend laugh.
Here’s a little story for you.
YEARS ago my older brother had married a younger girl who was closer in age to me. They came in for a week long visit, and we got along almost instantly. I was close to my brother, and I’d never get out of line with any of his girlfriends let alone his wife.
During the visit, Mom and Dad had him putting a new ceiling in their bedroom. They spent a couple days having alone time in a hotel, while we were left at the house with my brother in charge.
One afternoon while he was working I’d offered to let her play SNES with me. Perfectly innocent right?
Now I’m a funny guy, and making people laugh is how I break the ice. It’s not long before I’ve got her cracking up laughing so hard that my brother hears us and comes stomping through the house wanting to know what’s going on. I hadn’t done a thing except be myself, and he was jealous.
I never do much as laid a hand on her, except for an introductory hug and a hug goodbye when they left. But the whole time they were visiting he was unnecessarily irritable toward me.
So to put a cap on everything, what you’re feeling happens. Every time you hear her laughter, your mind ties it to her being tickled. The fact that it’s coming from someone else is causing feelings of jealousy. I really don’t think it’s anything to worry about. It’s you she’s in love with.
