I'm a 20 year old college student and recently got into my first relationship ever, so I have no clue how any of this is supposed to work. We were cuddling for the first time on our fourth date yesterday and she started a tickle fight when she found out I was ticklish. It was a good bit of fun for the both of us but I can't help but feel guilty after the fact knowing that it was just a silly innocent thing for her, meanwhile I could get turned on by it and she wouldn't know. It was made clear that this wouldn't be the only time this will happen, so I don't know if I should just tell her next time things start going in that direction or if I should wait until we start having sex (we haven't even kissed yet). I feel like it could be too early to start laying my fetishes on her (again, first relationship so I don't really know), but then again, if I wait later down the line to tell her, she might feel betrayed and disgusted by me having kept that info from her. I just don't see a good way to go about this
Any and all advice is appreciated!
Any and all advice is appreciated!
