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Blog entries by desdemona
So about one year ago, I had the unfortunate experience of being ghosted by a man I thought I knew. Someone I had been dating for over a year and with whom I was considering a future - shaping my decisions around location (long distance) and availability. I still don't know what happened. I...
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I embarked on an airplane last Thursday to Manchester, England for a 16 day holiday. The pleasures and pitfalls of modern travel are not trivial. So far, my allergies while flying were horrific. I couldn't breathe and couldn't stop sneezing. To make matters slightly worse, the...
to move on :confused: :sadcry: ? I just don't know why or how to make the call. I've seen some things that concern me and make me feel empty inside, discarded. I hate being in limbo, hate not knowing. I hate being afraid to ask, or to make the decision. I suppose even writing this, I have made...
It's been cold and rainy here this week. But yesterday, the sun broke through. Only thing... I was crying. My beloved (almost) 22 year old cat Peaches died in my arms. I knew she was close to passing and I was going to take her in with me to work. But she took that final decision out of my...
Tonight, I had to euthanize my beloved cat, Jasmine. She was my constant companion, a bundle of joyful fur that would meet me at the stairs when I got home from work. She succumbed to cancer of the intestine. Which is ironic. Because I'm having intestinal issues of my own. As I watched her...
Today, I ventured into previously uncharted territory. I was "Domme for a day." Now, I'm not a switch, so please don't get the wrong idea when I tell you how this came to be and what transpired a few hours ago. I'm happy in my role as a sub. I've been content to be with my Dom for going on 6...
So my cat had her first chemo treatment today (well, technically her second since we gave her something after her ultrasound...but it wasn't effective against the kind of cancer she has).
I thought I'd tell you all what it's like, since this is my first foray into having an animal with cancer...
So traveling to upstate NY seems like such a simple thing... and yet insane at this time of year. I was watching the weather channel like a retiree with nothing better to do. All I could think was please don't let it hit this weekend and leave me stranded up there!
Friday went off...
Survity-eh! Learn about me.
1. What are your initials?
- DSM
2. What is your favorite thing to wear?
- Slacks and a knit top
3. Last thing you ate?
- Cool ranch Doritos
4. One place you will NEVER eat at?
- a sushi bar
5. I say Shotgun, you say:
- I'm driving?
6. Last...
It's been awhile since I sat and revisited my blogging. This summer has been insanely busy, but now with fall rolling in, I can take a bit of a breather. Like I did last weekend. I had a six hour+ session with my Dom. It was a fantastic time - we tried out new situations and new toys. And...
Well, as we wind down from the 4th of July, I thought I'd look back on this past weekend and encourage everyone to get in touch with his/her inner child. We spent Friday and Saturday at King's Island and Cedar Point enjoying good food, good friends, and epic fun on rides - big and small. I...
Well, we all need some silliness now and then. So after spotting this little survey on CrystalLight's blog, I decided to "borrow" it - ok, shoplift.
THREE NAMES I GO BY
- Deb, Debbie, Deborah
- Also Des, Mona
- Also Dr. M, Dr. Mac
THREE JOBS I HAVE HAD IN MY LIFE
-...
During the day, I practice control over everything - people, animals, situations. I'm in charge - even more so now that I'm a partner/owner at the clinic. For starters, I found that I enjoy giving up control to the right person. Someone whom I trust and with whom I share mutual respect. I...
So I found Alt.com and it opened new doors. That was about 5 years ago. I'd say many of the people I encountered were open minded. Some were pushy. And some were out and out rude. But I did meet someone on there and it started me on my journey into D/s.
We started with e-mails and phone...
The first thing I'll say about Alt... they don't lack for variety. The five page questionnaire of Likes/Dislikes spans all imaginable scenarios and then some. I like the categories to choose from: Have done... Would consider doing...No way! Or at least, that's how my mind recalls.
I got...
So after finding TMF and other sites with other people interested in tickling, I was eager to start examining other aspects of BDSM and even more eager to try my hand at some of the things that I was reading about. I started corresponding with Myriads about Dom/sub exchanges and he helped me...
After vet school, I tried to get into the Peace Corps. But unfortunately, I had such debt (4 years of out of state tuition will help you easily rack it up) that I couldn't pay my loans back based on the salary earned. And the government would not allow deferment. So I went out and found a job...
So...after my relationship fiasco, I decided to lay low and concentrate on finishing my education. It was around this time that my parents finalized their divorce and I came to realize that I much preferred being self-sufficient and independent. While I admire my mother and her strengths, I...
So after feeling a bit nostalgic this past weekend, I got to thinking about all the twists and turns that have landed me on the path I'm currently following. And how much has changed in such a relatively short time! I thought I'd put some of the highlights down for posterity - and just to sort...
I'm sorry so many people feel negative about the sharing that's going on in the forum. I'm sorry so many people (especially young ones) seem to have this sense of entitlement that astounds me. No one seems to be familiar with the idea of paying your dues. Or personal choice. Or priorities...
