That most people in the world don't have a tickle fetish, many don't like being tickled and won't indulge you tickling them - they have had bad experiences with being tickled with it hurting, being bullied with it or being felt up with it used as an excuse. Or they just don't like how it feels...
I have this dynamic with my partner Naomi, difference is she isn't a ticklish pushover sort like some of you :p She is usually the dominate not reacting to tickles one (chickie is super tickle tough, doubt many here could get her successfully type tough) but well with me she doesn't stand a...
Awww cute and so relatable! Me and Naomi are so much Iike the dynamic you described with your ex.
Naomi is physically and attitude wise a dominant sort. She is witty and sassy as heck, is an amazing tease and just has that energy ya know.
Tickling wise she is someone who will tickle others...
Oh fun story! I suppose after that, other times Laura or Liam tried to tickle you and got the worst of it since you stopped being ticklish - they probably couldn't work out what happened haha.
Interesting you say the ticklishness sometimes comes back?! That's kinda random, through from a lers...
As a similar not ticklish person of Italian ethnicity I approve of chickies toughness haha.
I personally can't relate to not keeping a partner (who is otherwise a nifty fit for you) because they can't / won't indulge a particular kink in a particular way.
There are so many ways you can...
I am not ticklish in the haha / it's torture sense. But I do like how it feels - relaxing and potential sensual with the right person - and I am far from the only person like that
But you can still learn things in this situation, where someone is trying to tickle you with no success. You can...
It's not a fantasy scenario, in that revenge proof ticklers do exist points to self.
It's very empowering and freeing for the ler to know they don't have to worry about payback so can be as teasing, mean and under handed as they wish!
I think it's scarier / higher feelings of helplessness...
Thanks mister!
And yeah it's nice to hear someone acknowledge their are others like me! We aren't ticklish in the traditional sense but enjoy how it feels (relaxing and possibly sensual) and also enjoy the power dynamics it brings (in the tickling world I can get you but you can't get me is a...
Awww thanks mister magic glad you enjoyed.
I wasn't looking for a proper relationship with anyone at that time, but James did ask me to go out formally a couple of times, I always said no because that wasn't what I wanted in life right then.
But we did go on casual type dates and had our fun...
Awww thanks for the tickle tuff recognition! Wasn't ticklish growing up no, plenty of the exact people you'd expect tried (siblings and their friends, my friends, cousins etc) and nothing ever got me or made me struggle despite many and on going attempts over the years, - guess I just don't have...
Thanks sweetie. And well haha I think he enjoyed that particular "lesson" despite the ticklish torment! But yes you gotta keep those wannabe ticklers on their toes with a taste of their own medicine!
Thanks hon, and haha that's me - let them try then make them cry (tears of laughter)! It's a pretty fun dynamic between the right kinds of people I think 😊