Waiting will only prolong your frustration and misery. Allow yourself what you want by expressing what you want. Don't waste your time growing to care for someone that won't be satisfying.
Most women are just carbon copies of each other, like men are all the same, gays, whites, blacks, and Hispanics. No individuals. Just hive-minded monoliths of clones within cultures. I know this as it's been evidenced often in the movies and TV shows I watch.
The ignorance is breathtaking.
It is emblematic of a section of the community the way some members try to dismantle one person's truth by hyper-focusing on clearly-overstated attendance numbers instead of the central theme, which seems to be the price for a poorly run event that caused a bad experience.