Recent content by Provocateur

Implying to somebody they, specifically, belong to a group that gets on your nerves, based on your misinterpretation of their comment, while at the same time telling them, albeit not directly, that they should GTFO. I call that flaming somebody. The only thing lacking in your flaming was bad...

So of "these people" giving "shallow 'advice'" actually have experience ;)

Yes, hell yes it's perfectly ok. I've heard of perfectly sound, working relationships where partners watched porn together, even got some good ideas. Watching a porno and then getting to try something that looks cool and exciting with a partner is really something special.

Doesn't that make you a rapist, not an inadequate lover?

There should be no place in a relationship for control and jealousy, and such things are not easily cureable, if at all. Hijacking, your opinion discredits everything you might say. Anything remotely tied to sex, watching porn or going to sex websites is cheating? Not sure if that's sad or...

Bravo, kis123. You basically flamed a person while giving a lecture about maturity. See the irony in this? OP, I would ask what kind of interaction you have with a model when she first comes in. Do you talk, what do you talk about? Did you notice she was nervous or tired? Perhaps you should...

Jill, his description has "Dump that piece of shit!" written all over it, and I won't even try to make that sound anything other than what it is: Nasty. He's a control freak that managed to make you feel guilty for something you love. There is no equality in any relationship with such a person...

Why can't we have both? I'd go for being a klutz and "accidentally" drag my hand across her sole while I tried to grab whatever is holding her down. Or perhaps I'd even tease with the "are you ticklish?" line, then judge the reaction and situation before making a move. My actions, of course...

Many women have this really weird body=object problem. When you comment their body they immediately see you objectifying them, but if you say something nice about the stuff they are wearing it's a compliment to their ability to choose nice-looking clothes and a positive thing. In my experience...

Why is it that every time somebody says YOLO, it seems to be before a stupid decision that ruins the rest of their lives, gets them killed, or something else entirely on the negative side of life experience. In my opinion, anybody using YOLO as an excuse for anything should be cock-blocked.

Actually every phobia is a disease, or rather a disorder. People don't want many things called a disease because there is a irrational misconception that having a disease somehow makes you a lesser person or wrong in some way.

I didn't mean the personal you either, nor did I think you were aiming at me at any moment (that's why I even added the "not aimed at you" part to make it clear I wasn't targeting you in any way). I don't make it a habit to target people who are using well formatted sentences, correct grammar...

Yes, but generalizations about touching are being made throughout the discussion.

There is about as much wrong with a Pedofile as there is with a Homosexual or Tickling fetishist. The only difference is the sauce. And while a Tickling fetishist can tickle a partner and a Homosexual can get out of the closet, a Pedofile is banned and imprisoned. While we have no disease, they...

@Jeff: This is one of the things I find very wrong with people (not aimed at you). The fact that they consider interpretation and response a burden. People seem to want to be robots more and more. Same-old routine every day, not a single change, makes them feel safe. They don't want to THINK...