Hey, I tried PMing you a couple of times but it didn't look like they actually sent for some strange reason. Anyway, I'm a 26 year old male ler also from the UK, the scenarios you described sound like a lot of fun, reluctance and public embarrassment and display are two of my favorite things as...
Hello Liza, from what you've said your tastes and mine are about the same, although obviously coming at it from opposite directions :P
I write myself and I agree about the whole creating a scenario or situation aspect of roleplaying, a fantasy is better with context and I have a lot more fun...