T_Titillatus

Below, you will find an excerpt from my FetLife profile. I think it provides a reasonable overview of my kink-related interests, minus the tickling.

I am relatively new to the tickling community, but I’ve been fascinated with it since childhood, and have always enjoyed incorporating it into my BDSM play. I am a ler, and in addition to tickling in general, I have a lifelong foot fetish. Whether it’s tickling or bondage, if I can incorporate feet, I will. You probably won’t be surprised to learn that I’m a big fan of bastinado as well. I plan on making my profile much more ticklecentric, but until then, here is my Fet profile.

I am a sadistic dom with daddy tendencies, or as a good friend and play partner commented, a “sadist via pain and puns.” I have been exploring BDSM and playing for the past couple of decades, and during that time, I have discovered a great deal about myself, my desires, and BDSM in general, that said, I realize that I have had but a glimpse of what is possible.

Within the bounds of what I have experienced, some of my favorites and fetishes include: bondage, power exchange, flogging, whipping, caning, eStim (violet wand & TENS), sensory deprivation, sensation play, teasing, orgasm control/training, and role play (just to name a few), but I am interested in expanding my repertoire and always open to trying new things.

As the title of my profile suggests (and as those with whom I have played can attest), I can sometimes tend toward the sadistic end of the spectrum. That said, simply causing another human being pain and suffering does not get me off. Pain is a sensation, like any other, but it is an undesirable one for most. However, for some it is just the opposite, they crave it, and derive satisfaction and pleasure from it. Sometimes the satisfaction is immediate, and springs from the alternation between pleasure and pain, with the two eventually melding into one exquisite sensation. At other times the pleasure and satisfaction are only evident in retrospect, in part deriving from a sense of accomplishment for having tolerated so much. In either case, the experience of the submissive is paramount, and part of what gratifies me is knowing that the experience was a positive one.

Please don't misunderstand and assume that pain is always involved when I play. Part of what I love about BDSM is the seemingly endless array of options and possibilities for erotic expression. There are times when all I want is to slowly, sweetly, and sensually explore my partner, and I can spend hours doing nothing else. I can be just as content with a few lengths of rope and my imagination as I can be with the entire contents of my toybox at my disposal.