No- he has no desire for "vanilla sex". Thing is... I don't either... I enjoy being kinky and adventurous. My concern is that he is so into porn that real physical contact doesn't arouse him anymore. Or perhaps it is me that doesn't arouse him... but since he is affectionate in other ways, it...
i try that and it isn't working. i'm willing to do anything he wants. it simply isn't enough. its the only real problem in our relationship. i can't think of anything else except that i'm not tickle porn, and thats what he wants.