General
I am far from normal, but I wouldn't say exotic describes me either. I have an appreciation for both art and science. To me, simplicity is beauty's visage. In relationships, I greatly value honesty, authenticity, and compassion. I'm not quick to judge, but I'm also not quick to trust. I am an independent thinker when it comes to cultural and social norms, adopting what works for me, and disregarding what does not. Some might call me boring, but I have a strong affinity for peace and quiet (though I don't often get it).
Chat & Interaction
Firstly, I have a medical condition that, while otherwise harmless, is slowly causing me to go blind. Therefore, reading fast and engaging in many DMs at once is not one of my strengths. For the same reason, I am finding it increasingly difficult to process visual information, though don’t be surprised if I comment on something visual, as the manifestation of my vision loss is extremely complicated and unpredictable. With that little disclaimer out of the way, I am usually open to discussing anything, tickling-related or not. However, I am not interested in online RP. I tend to be reclusive, keeping to myself and my work. Feel free to reach out to me, but if I happen to be busy or can't respond, please don't be offended - Try again later! I'd rather be engaged in a few meaningful conversations than dividing my attention among many less-meaningful ones.
Tickling
I absolutely love tickling! It is my favorite kink and has been with me since my earliest memories. One of the most beautiful experiences is tickling a girl until sweat and emotional energy are pouring from her every ounce of being. I equally like it when a girl does the same to me, though it can be scary if they really get into it! I am about a 50/50 switch, but I feel like a lot of people interpret that to mean that my tickler and ticklee sides take away from each other in some way. It's probably more clear to say I'm a 100/100 switch! I love all kinds, hard, soft, slow, fast, sensual, torturous, bound, unbound, and everything in between. The following is my perspective of how I fit into both roles:
Ticklee: My sensitivity varies from day-to-day, but I'm definitely ticklish. Catch me on a bad day and I'm in real trouble. I like it all, but I prefer intensity, forcing me through unbearable tickling sensations. I almost never have a safe word as a lee (though I hypocritically insist that others do), but if the play partner insists, I will. My wife and a few play partners have absolutely brutalized me with tickling. Being tickled in this way is one of the few things that shuts my brain off long enough to relax. I'm much more shy about this side of my tickling kink. Where am I ticklish? Look, I know I'm stupid, but I'm not that stupid!
Tickler: There's nothing better than tormenting a bound helpless girl out of her mind. I love the victim's anticipation. I love how their body tenses up, and how they clench their fists and toes tightly while grinding their teeth. I love how they shut their eyes and pretend they're somewhere else, only to find they can't take their mind off of the tickling. I love how, in hopeless desparation, they blow air in my face as their only defence, albeit an ineffective one. Most of all, I love the control I have over them, and the begging and pleading for mercy.
Other Kinks & Curiosities
Feet, fit tummies, underarms, edging, teasing, denial, bondage, playful spanking, scratching, nibbling, pinching, itching, post-orgasm torture, chastity play, temperature play, water, and oil.
Sessions & Meetups
I am married to a wonderful woman from the community (
ticklemepurplee). While we deeply enjoy playing with each other, we also enjoy sessions with others as a couple when they are a good fit. We are only interested in women, or possibly other couples under the right circumstances. While we have a variety of kink interests, unless otherwise discussed and agreed to, we are only interested in tickling and bondage play with others. We are careful, private, and reserved, but please do not presume this to mean we are not interested in socializing.
You can read more about sessions and meetups with us here.
Interests
Languages, literature, music, writing (creative & technical), all the sciences, technology & computers, politics, education, math, martial arts, fitness, mysteries, cooking, nature, other cultures, history, finance, business, women, and tickling!