I'm kiiiinda guessing you're referring to Inverse there. Admittedly, that was a pretty awful thing to do, and it really shows a lack of faith in the understanding of people here. But I'm always at least a PM away, even if I'm not on Yahoo, so you've still got me one way or another.
My sympathies for your wrists, though. If you're comparing them to labor pains, then I can only imagine what kind of agony they're in. :cry