Hi Allie,
Nice to "meet" you.  I saw your post and thought that I'd very much like to make a friend on this board.  I just signed up and so far, I'm enjoying it.  
I'm almost entirely a 'ler, my username to the contrary.  I just recently decided that I should explore my 'ler side.  It's definitely there, mostly untouched, as it were.  And since I'm in my 30's I thought now's the time.  I don't want to be some 40+ year old guy asking to be tickled. 
I live in New York.  It's fun here.  I date a good deal, and sometimes I meet someone who shares my interests, often not so much.
Tell me about you.  I'm interested.