Dealing with unwelcome attention

[CrazyLikeAFox]

When I said I thought I had experienced the same thing I meant I thought someone decided to ignore me just to be safe. Turns out they just don't visit the forum as often as I.

And who in their right mind would want to harrass me?

[AJ2007]

I'm going to compare the situation to being in public almost. You'd never walk up to a lady and be like "Look at me, wanna come home with me?". No, you'd initiate conversation find things in common and progress from there or, initiate conversation realize you have no mutual interests and continue on your merry way. Although there's probably tons of rejection in there, oh well don't take it personal some people just don't want to talk. That's the way I look at it.

[ItaleeBoo]

I have to say from a female point and a newbie here....it is true. I have already had several people that reminded me of One-night stands to put it politely. Believe me I am not trying to judge anyone for how they choose to go about meeting people; however, that is not what I'm here for. I want to get to know people, make friends, and learn more about myself as a lee. On my side of things, I don't mind telling people about me if they are being genuine because that's the only way we'll get to know each other.

I would like to say though that I have already met some very nice, seemingly genuine people on the TMF. I will continue to hold out the belief that there are more nice, friendly, genuine people here than the other variety.

[Cuige Uladh]

I've been hanging out in the chat room, and yes, even as a man, it can get right creepy.

[porcelaindoll2]

Thanks that really helped. Being a young female this happens to me a lot. This also doesn't just apply to women, some of the young guys I've started talking to from TMF say they also get creepy messages from men also. Why does it seem like people want to jump the gun and ask stuff they shouldn't be asking until they get to know the person first!? I consider myself a very laid back and understanding person, but really what happened to morality? Did it die and I didn't get the memo?

[Kid Caravan]

I've only been a member for a few days and I'm already discovering this. I entered the chatroom and had several guys asking if I was into tickling/being tickled by men. When I told them I wasn't, they just kept asking questions, making comments, whatever, etc.

Thanks for the tips...

[SensualTickler7]

Ignore them...Don't let anyone spoil your fun with their ignorance..

[lsprix]

Thanks, i have a lot of these problems.

[Angel77]

Ignore them...Don't let anyone spoil your fun with their ignorance..

Good advice. Sure, if anyone does something that truly makes you uneasy, go and report it. But just keep in mind, you don't have to deal with anyone that you don't want to. Sometimes I'll see someone go off on how awful/annoying/shitty/etc. a person is and I just think, ignore them! I don't understand why people just don't use that feature more often. It's not worth the stress.

Why deal with unwanted crap?

Life is way too short.

[FTKL_DC]

Great advice

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[ASHLEY.GREGG]

I thought someone decided to ignore me just to be safe. Turns out they just don't visit the forum as often as I.

[iblush]

I am extremely new to this site. Including this post, I have been here about 7 or 8 times. My lover likes to be tickled and tickle me. I love to please him. He has posted several videos of our time together. With this being said, I have already been hit on, harrassed, basically chased down on the internet and been called many, many derogatory names...the nicest being Jabba the Hut.
Personally, I say, if you don't like, don't look!

[carol8961]

There are some who don't take no for an answer. I try to be polite but with some I have just chosen to ignore them. Hopefully, they will eventually get the idea that I don't want to be bothered. You don't have to chat or engage with anyone that you don't. But, I have found for the most part, that most people on here are wonderfully genuine people whom I am very happy to call my friends. Don't let a few creepy people ruin it for you!

[stockingtkl]

and what do we do about fftickler who bans people from the chat because of bs he's told by those in the chat who act as if they're 12?

Just wondering

[flfootmod]

iblush I am extremely new to this site. Including this post, I have been here about 7 or 8 times. My lover likes to be tickled and tickle me. I love to please him. He has posted several videos of our time together. With this being said, I have already been hit on, harrassed, basically chased down on the internet and been called many, many derogatory names...the nicest being Jabba the Hut.
Personally, I say, if you don't like, don't look!

Exactly iblush!! Very well put..
Everyone has a choice if they want to view something.... First off people.. read the Title and don't click on it if it if you're not interested it it!!
And if you click it on and don't like it hit the back button..
Pretty simple!!

Cooments and suggetions or requests are welcome... But there's no reason to be rude and mean to someone who is taking the time and effort to share.

Heather, please don't be discouraged by the few idiots out there.
The fact of the matter is the Heather revenge clips were amazing!! It would be a dream come true to experience that!!