Bdsmtickler
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- Apr 9, 2013
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After some time on the Forum, I am a bit puzzled about how people see the relation between BDSM & tickling.
When you look at the clip section there is a lot of bondage and producers sell their clip by talking of torture, desperation etc. The clips themselves seems to be strictly tickling - I have seen very few that combine it with spanking, bastinado etc. While I am aware that making stories in clips is hard, I am a bit surprised that none seems to include something like making the 'lee swear to obey or something other BDSM'ish.
The story section (and I haven't read all!!) seems to have some bdsm themes, and the true stories sections fewer. The only place with lots of s/m themes seem the art section!
This discussion sections seems, almost weirdly, without references to BDSM themes. People talk about what to wear when beeing tickled, almost exclusively from a practical point of view, where I would expect at least a few remarks about the humilation of beeing stripped, the pussy beeing exposed so "I can take her when I want to" or what ever. Same with, bondage positions.. again mostly practical considerations (and, granted, some remarks on being helpless).
I HAVE found and read the threads describing the various form of tickling fetisches, and ofcourse fully respect that we are different, and I also know that I am (probably) at liberty to bring BDSM into the discussion, but what I hope some will tell me is this:
0) Are my observations wrong?
1) Am I the only only one who uses tickling as a BDSM tool, along with other tools.
2) Is this forum (or at least this section) a kind of safe haven for people who just like tickling - include the bondage for pratical reasons - but want nothing to do with BDSM. In which case I wouldn't want to ruin the party.
When you look at the clip section there is a lot of bondage and producers sell their clip by talking of torture, desperation etc. The clips themselves seems to be strictly tickling - I have seen very few that combine it with spanking, bastinado etc. While I am aware that making stories in clips is hard, I am a bit surprised that none seems to include something like making the 'lee swear to obey or something other BDSM'ish.
The story section (and I haven't read all!!) seems to have some bdsm themes, and the true stories sections fewer. The only place with lots of s/m themes seem the art section!
This discussion sections seems, almost weirdly, without references to BDSM themes. People talk about what to wear when beeing tickled, almost exclusively from a practical point of view, where I would expect at least a few remarks about the humilation of beeing stripped, the pussy beeing exposed so "I can take her when I want to" or what ever. Same with, bondage positions.. again mostly practical considerations (and, granted, some remarks on being helpless).
I HAVE found and read the threads describing the various form of tickling fetisches, and ofcourse fully respect that we are different, and I also know that I am (probably) at liberty to bring BDSM into the discussion, but what I hope some will tell me is this:
0) Are my observations wrong?
1) Am I the only only one who uses tickling as a BDSM tool, along with other tools.
2) Is this forum (or at least this section) a kind of safe haven for people who just like tickling - include the bondage for pratical reasons - but want nothing to do with BDSM. In which case I wouldn't want to ruin the party.