Dude...chill out. The name calling immediately? It’s pretty clear why you haven’t had much luck. You act like you’re entitled towards finding a female Lee...they are people, build connections, get to know them. They don’t owe you anything, especially when you act like they are property that don’t have a say in the matter. I’ve had plenty of luck on here, and on Fetlife. Now, lee’s know me, can/do contact my references with other lees and learn that I’m a respectable and honest guy here in so cal. I’ve had a lot of success and a lot of great lees and have NEVER paid for a session. Your social skills are very clearly lacking.