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can watching too much tickle porn makes you sexual dysfunctional???

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dante78

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well....first of all im sorry for my bad english its not my original language.....

some says that watching too much vanilla porn can makes you sexual dysfunctional....
like.. you love your partner you do what you think you want but you cant get an erection....or its a weak erection....
so is it for tickling porn too??
can tickling porn makes you null about normal things because you were in world of tickling too much???
i never jerked off to the vanilla porn only tickling (images , games , videos , stories....ect.) so even thinking about normal sex cant gives me an erection...(tickling fantasizes do)
i know porn and sex are different because porn is pornography and its something that you looking at and its behind the screen but sex is something that we DO and sex has more love and forplay thing when porn is just some random guys doing some straight to the point stuff......
but what about tickling?? does it have the same thing?? can watching too much tickle porn makes you sexual dysfunctional??? because even thinking about foreplay wasnt a thing for me to jerk off??
im virgin so i didnt had sex before so i dont know if i can have normal sex besides of tickling things......i mean can it be like when i tickle play with her i have an erection but when it comes to vanilla sex i cant get an erection??? and can it be because of porn or is it because i prefer tickling things over vanilla sexual fatasizes???

and plz dont say get a girlfriend and do it yourself to see what happens because im leaving in a muslim country which having girlfriend is prohibited and girls and boys living fully seprate from eachother till having a marriage by the chose of their families so i can have sex after i getting marry to semeone . which is too late to undrestand about this things

thanks for reading i appreciate your answers
 
There have been a lot of studies over the years regarding the effect that porn has on individuals.

The key part of your question is the words 'too much' in your statement.

That is the very question that a lot of research asks. "How much IS too much?" "Is there a too much?" and so forth.

The basic consensus is that like every thing else in life there is a 'too much'. You can eat too much ice cream, drink too much water, and so forth all to bad effect. Porn over-consumed will have an effect. The issue is one that reflects so many other sexual questions. Even human is unique in psychology, and thus they all respond differently to the same inputs. Some people can take, for example, much more stress on a day to day basis without showing ill effects. In the same way some folks can watch a lot more porn and see no effects. Others do, at much smaller amounts.

So its a very human situation. The answer is yes, but it depends on specifics in you how much.

As to what porn does to people; mostly it tends to cause a tendency to create ruts that work to the exclusion of all else, thus desensitizing a person mentally to possible real world interactions that differ from the porn that 'works', making real sex less satisfying and reinforcing the porn dependence for satisfaction.

Not a healthy spiral.

But again, its almost impossible to say if YOU will have issues after some amount 'X' of porn. We don't know how you'll react. You note you are a virgin, which means that there is a lot that you don't know about yourself. And you won't until you have a real partner.

For now you've discovered that porn works for you, and consume it to get satisfaction. The question you can ask yourself, in fact a test you can run on yourself is to see if you can get off without porn, just using gooier own imagination. And a test within that test is to see if you can do it with tickling fantasies, AND with just normal vanilla non-tickling fantasies. If yoiu can, then your sexuality is functioning pretty much normally.

Best of luck, and the fundamental rule is to learn about oneself as you can until you do have the chance to spend time with a partner and learn more.

Myriads
 
Hasn't been an issue for me, although a lot of ticklefuckers claim they can only be aroused by tickling, which has never been an issue for me. That likely factors into it.
 
Myriads said:
For now you've discovered that porn works for you, and consume it to get satisfaction. The question you can ask yourself, in fact a test you can run on yourself is to see if you can get off without porn, just using gooier own imagination. And a test within that test is to see if you can do it with tickling fantasies, AND with just normal vanilla non-tickling fantasies. If yoiu can, then your sexuality is functioning pretty much normally.

Best of luck, and the fundamental rule is to learn about oneself as you can until you do have the chance to spend time with a partner and learn more.

Myriads
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So um, what happens when you have the backup fetishes? Does it benefit or detriment the issue?
 
duderino84 said:
So um, what happens when you have the backup fetishes? Does it benefit or detriment the issue?
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Not quite sure what you mean by 'back up fetishes'

If you mean co-fetishes like feet which many ticklers share then its just a matter of how needful those fetish likes are and if the sexuality can operate without them present.

Myriads
 
The short answer is, yes, it's possible, and I've been through that phase myself.

Here's what worked for me. Full disclosure - this is not scientific by any means. It's just what worked for me. I still have a marked preference for tickling (which is fine, that's what a fetish is all about), and don't get turned on by a lot of other things. But it's definitely not 'only tickling' which it might have been say a few years ago.

What worked for me - cutting down on masturbation, and changing one things one variable at a time. So for example - if you like tickling and bondage and certain kinds of partners, maybe try out porn which is bondage + preference, but not tickling.

Try and mix things up. Even within the tickling space, if you're primarily turned on by video, try fiction. Or Vice-versa.

The objective is to expose your mind to as many different sexual stimuli as possible. You'll be fine, man. Don't worry about it. Most importantly, relax, and have fun.
 
Myriads said:
Not quite sure what you mean by 'back up fetishes'

If you mean co-fetishes like feet which many ticklers share then its just a matter of how needful those fetish likes are and if the sexuality can operate without them present.

Myriads
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Nah I mean generally unrelated fetishes. But I guess I see the pattern you're forming.
 
To properly address the OP, "vanilla" porn and tickle porn would have the same impacts on a person. It's based on what sexually stimulates. Therefore, if it was been proven that vanilla porn can have negative impacts on a person's real world sexual desires, then fetish porn would also have those same effects on someone who prefers a particular fetish. And yes, there are many Ted Talks by people how describe who internet porn because a gateway to more risky desires, destroyed their real life sex lives with their partners, and even ruined their marriages and careers.
 
Myriads said:
There have been a lot of studies over the years regarding the effect that porn has on individuals.

The key part of your question is the words 'too much' in your statement.

That is the very question that a lot of research asks. "How much IS too much?" "Is there a too much?" and so forth.

The basic consensus is that like every thing else in life there is a 'too much'. You can eat too much ice cream, drink too much water, and so forth all to bad effect. Porn over-consumed will have an effect. The issue is one that reflects so many other sexual questions. Even human is unique in psychology, and thus they all respond differently to the same inputs. Some people can take, for example, much more stress on a day to day basis without showing ill effects. In the same way some folks can watch a lot more porn and see no effects. Others do, at much smaller amounts.

So its a very human situation. The answer is yes, but it depends on specifics in you how much.

As to what porn does to people; mostly it tends to cause a tendency to create ruts that work to the exclusion of all else, thus desensitizing a person mentally to possible real world interactions that differ from the porn that 'works', making real sex less satisfying and reinforcing the porn dependence for satisfaction.

Not a healthy spiral.

But again, its almost impossible to say if YOU will have issues after some amount 'X' of porn. We don't know how you'll react. You note you are a virgin, which means that there is a lot that you don't know about yourself. And you won't until you have a real partner.

For now you've discovered that porn works for you, and consume it to get satisfaction. The question you can ask yourself, in fact a test you can run on yourself is to see if you can get off without porn, just using gooier own imagination. And a test within that test is to see if you can do it with tickling fantasies, AND with just normal vanilla non-tickling fantasies. If yoiu can, then your sexuality is functioning pretty much normally.

Best of luck, and the fundamental rule is to learn about oneself as you can until you do have the chance to spend time with a partner and learn more.

Myriads
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thankyou very much

as i said i can get off by imagination of tickling but not vanilla things
i can fully understand why sex and vanilla foreplay are really fun but getting exited?? no , i cant getting exited and have an erection....maybe an average one.....
 
Comfort Eagle said:
Hasn't been an issue for me, although a lot of ticklefuckers claim they can only be aroused by tickling, which has never been an issue for me. That likely factors into it.
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you mean.....you had almost zero interests in vanilla porn and even imagination of normal sex couldn't turn you on and only got off to tickling porn but you could having normal sex besides of tickling ??
 
dante78 said:
thankyou very much

as i said i can get off by imagination of tickling but not vanilla things
i can fully understand why sex and vanilla foreplay are really fun but getting exited?? no , i cant getting exited and have an erection....maybe an average one.....
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This indicates that your like of tickling is not a paraphilia, but indeed a fetish.

That does qualify as a sexual disfunction in clinical terms, as a paraphilia is simply a preference or strong like, while a fetish is when a action or object is NEEDFUL to gain sexual excitement.

This can obviously become a problem in ones life, and cause relationship issues in the future. But in the context of your original question, porn has zero to do with it. Porn is not making you this way, you are already there with the fetish, and the porn is simply you current best outlet for getting sexual aroused.

Your potential problems will come when you do get into a relationship. If you are unable to have, or even begin a sexual interaction with your partner without tickling being mandatory, then you'll have significant issues in finding partners that can accept your specific fetish need, and maintain a good sexual relationship with them. Which in turn makes relationships harder.

This is THE major issue that many here have faced. The problem of having a true fetish, that limits their sexuality in ways that make having sexual relationships much more difficult and cuts ones enjoyment of life in whole.

The best advice I can offer, given where you are in your life, is to start to look for, and focus on other things then tickling that you can be aroused by. That you enjoy, and that the idea of appeals. Basically look for other things then tickling that 'work' for you. The wider your potential pool of arousal cues, the less you will be shakcled by the fetish.

Be well,
Myriads
 
I actually think it depends on the mood, partner, physical condition, etc. Sometimes I can get aroused by something as simple as kissing or ear nibbling, sometimes I will need feet and tickling, and sometimes I can tickle my girlfriend playfully, and just have fun with it, without this necessarily meaning that I will get hard. But yes, to answer your question, like everything in life, too much of something isn't always good and can change your perception towards different things. As overeating could be harmful, so can watching too much (tickling) porn.
 
Watching too much of any kind of porn can create sexual dysfunction. When one specific fetish gets in the way, it leads to problems maintaining a healthy sexual relationship. I would recommend looking through different kinks and see what else helps you get aroused. Like vegeta said, it's helpful to start by analyzing other preferences you have and see if you can get off to them alone.
 
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