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Has anyone used your tickle fetish to embarrass you?

CS22

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I’ve told someone about my fetish. We definitely had some fun with him tickling me, but now I’m worried he will expose me since we are no longer together? Has anyone experienced this?
 
My exwife has not said anything, and it was a big deal for me. Personally i wouldnt worry.
 
I think it depends on what type of person they are and how you two parted. I've been fortunate no one ever has said anything about me in my past.
 
I used to be embarrassed by it too. It certainly could happen - but it's not really anything worth getting worked up over. If anything, it's on him for spreading rumors about an ex - that sort of thing is generally frowned on in polite company. I'd say that if he did try and expose your interest, that would reflect poorly on him and make other people unsure if he's trustworthy if he's willing to bring up the secrets of a former significant other.
 
Yes I have. But never from any former significant others. I agree with the above statement that it would probably reflect more poorly on him in polite company.

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Just about anyone I’ve slept with knows not actually told them but sure they know after
What I did to them see on all honesty way I see it is if your sleeping with someone chances are you will suck there dick lock there pussy eat there ass ect .... so tickling them is no big deal really so I wouldn’t worry about it buddy
 
I’ve told someone about my fetish. We definitely had some fun with him tickling me, but now I’m worried he will expose me since we are no longer together? Has anyone experienced this?

fortunately no. I have actually had pretty good experiences. The best one being able to tickle a girl who accidentally witnessed me tickling someone else.
 
My first wife tried to shame me by outing me to her girlfriends after we’d broken up; it ended up backfiring on her, because several of them brought it up, and asked, “So, how come you never tickled me?”. It’s really not that big of a deal, as long as that’s not all there is about you.
 
Yup. I had an ex Gf, that would playfully mention things, not sure if she meant it to hurt me sometimes, like we played a game at a party like truth or dare and one card pulled was like "tickle the person to your right" and she was like "Oh SARA wishes she got that card!" Another time we were in the car and she mentioned her new sneakers made her feet look huge, and I was like "oh..well take off your shoe, let me see how they compare, and she was like "you just want to see my feet!" then there was another time where she herself brought up how nylons make her feet more ticklish...like very matter of fact. I let her know how hot it was to hear her say that, and when we were at Nordstrom in the hosiery section she said really loud "do you want me to get theeeeese??? They will make me mooore tiiiicklish!"...that was definitely to make fun of me, and it was at a time when we weren't in a great spot.
 
I don't think it has ever happened intentionally, but I've had partners bring it up in a way that was embarrassing or hurtful. One example was when I was watching a show with my wife 2-3 years ago and it was revealed that a character had been paying a sex worker to come to his office and tickle him. There was a lot of poking fun at that character in the show and I said something like "man, I'm feeling a bit attacked here" and my wife (not knowing the extent of my fetish I guess) responded with a confused look and "you like tickling that much?!" and I just kind of brushed it off and didn't respond. Another time was when talking with an ex a few years after our breakup and kink play with our new partners came up in conversation. I mentioned that my GF at the time seemed into experimenting with getting tickled and her response to that was "oh, right. i forgot that you like tickling" and tickling had a bit of weight and slight judgmental tone attached to it, which is odd because she used to seem to love torturing me when we were together. Again, not anything that I think was intentionally malicious, but it can happen.
 
Luckily no, and I hope it doesn't happen. I think you'll be fine, but in the case your ex tries to use it against you, hopefully it will backfire.
 
My exwife has not said anything, and it was a big deal for me. Personally i wouldnt worry.

oh, if she's dated since you she's 100% told the guy about it. I'm not trying to maek you upset but that's going to happen if it hasn't already.
 
My first wife tried to shame me by outing me to her girlfriends after we’d broken up; it ended up backfiring on her, because several of them brought it up, and asked, “So, how come you never tickled me?”. It’s really not that big of a deal, as long as that’s not all there is about you.

Thank you for this.
 
Yup. I had an ex Gf, that would playfully mention things, not sure if she meant it to hurt me sometimes, like we played a game at a party like truth or dare and one card pulled was like "tickle the person to your right" and she was like "Oh SARA wishes she got that card!" Another time we were in the car and she mentioned her new sneakers made her feet look huge, and I was like "oh..well take off your shoe, let me see how they compare, and she was like "you just want to see my feet!" then there was another time where she herself brought up how nylons make her feet more ticklish...like very matter of fact. I let her know how hot it was to hear her say that, and when we were at Nordstrom in the hosiery section she said really loud "do you want me to get theeeeese??? They will make me mooore tiiiicklish!"...that was definitely to make fun of me, and it was at a time when we weren't in a great spot.

Yeah see? That’s embarrassing. I’m sorry that happened to you.
 
Nope and I am one of those people that is really hard to embarrass.
This quote pretty much sums me up, “The man who alters his way of thinking to suit others is a fool.”
—Marquis de Sade
 
Ive never personally had it happen to me. I dont think i would react to it if an ex tried to use my fetishes to embarrass me, because its not something that would seem relevant to a lot of folks. It would honestly probably make the other person seem like a bit of a douche, because kink shaming is an overtly unkind thing to do and i imagine that people would pick up on it.

If i were in that position i would probably:
1. shrug it off, 'thats an odd thing to talk about right now. Moving on...'
2. respond to it at face value, 'is this relevant to anything' or 'is there something on your mind, because this is the x time youve mentioned this',
or
3. just call it out, 'what are you trying to do' or 'what is this'

Parting words:
Bullys respond how you respond. If you give them a reaction that they want, it will often encourage them to continue. Im petty, and i like to bully the people who try to bully me because im better at it, but you dont have to do all that. You can simply respond with neutrality and pragmatism.
 
If anyone was gonna do it, my ex would have during our separation proceedings. But she didn't. She mentioned porn (tickling videos). But I didn't care about that.
 
Yup. I had an ex Gf, that would playfully mention things, not sure if she meant it to hurt me sometimes, like we played a game at a party like truth or dare and one card pulled was like "tickle the person to your right" and she was like "Oh SARA wishes she got that card!" Another time we were in the car and she mentioned her new sneakers made her feet look huge, and I was like "oh..well take off your shoe, let me see how they compare, and she was like "you just want to see my feet!" then there was another time where she herself brought up how nylons make her feet more ticklish...like very matter of fact. I let her know how hot it was to hear her say that, and when we were at Nordstrom in the hosiery section she said really loud "do you want me to get theeeeese??? They will make me mooore tiiiicklish!"...that was definitely to make fun of me, and it was at a time when we weren't in a great spot.

You should have the turned the tables on her and said your the bitch that lets me and loves it
 
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