Hi everyone,
Long-time reader, first-time contributor. I won't bore you all with my full life story, but essentially:
I'm in my late 20s and I would say I've lived a somewhat frustrating and unsatisfying life... Tickling has been a big part of who I am since I can remember, yet my only real-world experience of it has been playful tickles with plutonic female friends or girls I've been interested in. Other than that, my only gratification has been through watching porn.
My romantic life has been a disaster - no partners. Plenty of attempts, but nothing ever stuck. I'm still trying in the hope that I'll get better at dating.
And sexually... well, I've just come around to the realisation that I'm probably asexual, in the sense that I have no interest in conventional sex, and never have. I've wanted to be in a relationship, but sex has never been a desire. My few sexual encounters ended with nothing happening, due to a complete lack of arousal.
So that's where I find myself today. And I'm hoping that some kind soul on this forum could offer their advice on: How best to go about living a life that is fun, meaningful, satisfying and (very importantly) allows me to indulge in tickling beyond what I described above?
Any suggestions and shared experiences would be kindly appreciated. It took me a while to build up the confidence to post this thread, but I am planning on being a more active contributor in this community going forwards.
Much love in advance.
Long-time reader, first-time contributor. I won't bore you all with my full life story, but essentially:
I'm in my late 20s and I would say I've lived a somewhat frustrating and unsatisfying life... Tickling has been a big part of who I am since I can remember, yet my only real-world experience of it has been playful tickles with plutonic female friends or girls I've been interested in. Other than that, my only gratification has been through watching porn.
My romantic life has been a disaster - no partners. Plenty of attempts, but nothing ever stuck. I'm still trying in the hope that I'll get better at dating.
And sexually... well, I've just come around to the realisation that I'm probably asexual, in the sense that I have no interest in conventional sex, and never have. I've wanted to be in a relationship, but sex has never been a desire. My few sexual encounters ended with nothing happening, due to a complete lack of arousal.
So that's where I find myself today. And I'm hoping that some kind soul on this forum could offer their advice on: How best to go about living a life that is fun, meaningful, satisfying and (very importantly) allows me to indulge in tickling beyond what I described above?
Any suggestions and shared experiences would be kindly appreciated. It took me a while to build up the confidence to post this thread, but I am planning on being a more active contributor in this community going forwards.
Much love in advance.