If you're on FetLife, you might want to join WildWitch's group "UK women into tickling", which is curated as a space for women only within our community. She's also a regular at the London munches and I'm sure would be happy to discuss her journey through the community. Though it can seem a very male-dominated scene online, these days attendance at the munches and play parties isusually about a third to a half women. Good luck!