Anyone on your Taboo list?

[Hockeyfeet]

Certainly we all have a Taboo List…right?

I’m talking about those people we have in our life that we have often thought, or fantasized, about engaging in some type of tickling activity. Whether it be as a Lee or a Ler…engaging in, or pursuing a tickling experience would create a very awkward situation or simply not right.
I have a few co-workers that I’m constantly thinking about in a switch situation. I also have had a few harmless encounters with my MIL, but she has the most amazing fingernails and I just can’t help thinking about being in a much more Lee role to her Ler. All of which would be very very bad for my personal life…lol…so I reserve them to just day dreams.

So….anyone else have a Taboo list?

[SugarSoaker]

Most people lol. Unless they are aware it's a fetish and consent to being tickled/tickling I consider it taboo and try not to think about it. I get the taboo appeal- there wouldn't be a whole subcategory in porn if it wasn't appealing but I just can't find myself to attempt to think about it because of the moral issues/yuck factor.
Highest on that list though:
Relatives (specifically mine but anyone really. When people try to PM me about their mom/sister/etc. I want to vomit and it's an immediate block)
Service workers (for the love of god stop fetishizing your pedicurist/masseuse they're just trying to do their job)

[Hockeyfeet]

I understand your pov, but I was really referring to…people you WANT to share a tickling experience with….but you just can’t for whatever reason. There’s dozens of people I’d never even contemplate…but this is more about restraint and how one deals with it. Thanks!

[SugarSoaker]

Ooh my b! Haha probably some of my more open-minded, flirty friends. I know they’d probably be open to it but the fear of them “knowing” makes me hesitant to ever ask.

[Hockeyfeet]

IKR!! I definitely have a few friends who I’ve always wondered….hmmmm

[BlindTickleS]

Growing up, my Aunt was a hula and poy instructor, and I often fantasized about tickling her. Then her youngest son ended up with a knockout, and a creepy uncle tickled her at a holiday party, she got many daydreams.
The person I’m currently with is a great tickler, but only mildly ticklish. Her sister on the other hand… that is my ever present taboo fantasy at the moment.

[BlindTickleS]

Most people lol. Unless they are aware it's a fetish and consent to being tickled/tickling I consider it taboo and try not to think about it. I get the taboo appeal- there wouldn't be a whole subcategory in porn if it wasn't appealing but I just can't find myself to attempt to think about it because of the moral issues/yuck factor.
Highest on that list though:
Relatives (specifically mine but anyone really. When people try to PM me about their mom/sister/etc. I want to vomit and it's an immediate block)
Service workers (for the love of god stop fetishizing your pedicurist/masseuse they're just trying to do their job)

I understand the sentiment, but people don’t choose what they are attracted to. I make a special effort not to judge people for things that are out of their control. We’re probably on the same page about actions though. You can and should control those. However, I will not shame even a pedophile for having attractions they didn’t choose. But the moment that their fantasy becomes an action taken, they should be prosecuted to the fullest extent. But for the vast majority of people who have attractions that would be abhorrent if acted upon, and they spend their whole lives with their quiet fantasies that they never intend to act on, they should be lauded and offered the support they need.
I hold this view because I heard a man on a call-in show, sobbing because he believed his god gave him an attraction he didn’t want and could never act upon as a lifelong trial. Not because it was hard to control himself, but because having the attraction alone was a pejorative. He was doomed to feel shame for his entire life for a chemical quirk in his brain that he had no say in. He was already in his 60’s, having never even contemplated crossing the line from thought into action. And the fact that the hosts gave him a shame-free space to tell his story was enough to bring him to tears.
I think this applies to other taboos, family, fetish or otherwise.
Well, that’s my 2 centtwo … with interest!

[SugarSoaker]

Oh I totally get where you’re coming from and apologize if I came off as judgey. I actually had that debate recently with a friend where I mentioned empathizing with people who are into pedophilia, but don’t act on it, as they cannot control what they like. It didn’t go well. I was more speaking from my experiences where people try to force their fetishes onto others, either by acting irl (and this isn’t just “fantasy” there are stories all the time in true tickling stories where people will tickle x person. Is it real or are they just having an outlet for their fantasy? Who knows but if they broadcast it as real, I’m going to assume it’s real and I will never be okay with that. I empathize with someone who has a unique sexual desire but my empathy ends where someone else’s consent violation begins. Does the person who you’re tickling know you’re beating off to a story about them online? No? Then I consider that non consensual and I will never applaud or encourage that. Maybe because my gender is the majority target of that kind of stuff and that makes me more sensitive to it because I am def. The minority in here when it comes to that, and if you ask most females why they don’t come on here, it’s because of the noncon discussions/fantasies.

As far as family tickling. i don’t like it. I make it very clear that I don’t like and like I said before, my empathy ends when someone else is involved. When that person is me, I do not take kindly to it. If someone tries to talk to me about it. Nope. People on here are very into what *their* fantasies are, without taking into account who they are talking to. I’m not an outlet for your fantasy.

Again, sorry if I came off as judge-y. I do love discussions like this so I tend to get super into them! My 3 cents haah.

I understand the sentiment, but people don’t choose what they are attracted to. I make a special effort not to judge people for things that are out of their control. We’re probably on the same page about actions though. You can and should control those. However, I will not shame even a pedophile for having attractions they didn’t choose. But the moment that their fantasy becomes an action taken, they should be prosecuted to the fullest extent. But for the vast majority of people who have attractions that would be abhorrent if acted upon, and they spend their whole lives with their quiet fantasies that they never intend to act on, they should be lauded and offered the support they need.
I hold this view because I heard a man on a call-in show, sobbing because he believed his god gave him an attraction he didn’t want and could never act upon as a lifelong trial. Not because it was hard to control himself, but because having the attraction alone was a pejorative. He was doomed to feel shame for his entire life for a chemical quirk in his brain that he had no say in. He was already in his 60’s, having never even contemplated crossing the line from thought into action. And the fact that the hosts gave him a shame-free space to tell his story was enough to bring him to tears.
I think this applies to other taboos, family, fetish or otherwise.
Well, that’s my 2 centtwo … with interest!

[Wrestledom]

Oh the taboo list is almost exclusively dominated by a couple of friend's wives. Committed women in general would be the list, though I don't feel that way about just * any * married woman.

Someone I know, because she married a friend? Yeah there's times I go 'Damn if I'd met her when she was single, I'd have given her a proper tickling or at least made a move on her'.

I'd never do that though, or even consider it, both because I could never do that to a friend, and also because realistically she probably wouldn't reciprocate anyway. Though thinking about it does give me a thrill. Ah, fantasies. our mind works in strange ways.

[little.lamb]

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[BlindTickleS]

Oh I totally get where you’re coming from and apologize if I came off as judgey. I actually had that debate recently with a friend where I mentioned empathizing with people who are into pedophilia, but don’t act on it, as they cannot control what they like. It didn’t go well. I was more speaking from my experiences where people try to force their fetishes onto others, either by acting irl (and this isn’t just “fantasy” there are stories all the time in true tickling stories where people will tickle x person. Is it real or are they just having an outlet for their fantasy? Who knows but if they broadcast it as real, I’m going to assume it’s real and I will never be okay with that. I empathize with someone who has a unique sexual desire but my empathy ends where someone else’s consent violation begins. Does the person who you’re tickling know you’re beating off to a story about them online? No? Then I consider that non consensual and I will never applaud or encourage that. Maybe because my gender is the majority target of that kind of stuff and that makes me more sensitive to it because I am def. The minority in here when it comes to that, and if you ask most females why they don’t come on here, it’s because of the noncon discussions/fantasies.

As far as family tickling. i don’t like it. I make it very clear that I don’t like and like I said before, my empathy ends when someone else is involved. When that person is me, I do not take kindly to it. If someone tries to talk to me about it. Nope. People on here are very into what *their* fantasies are, without taking into account who they are talking to. I’m not an outlet for your fantasy.

Again, sorry if I came off as judge-y. I do love discussions like this so I tend to get super into them! My 3 cents haah.

Cool! I’m sorry for my misunderstanding!
I’m also sorry that the discussion you mentioned didn’t go well. Important topics like this can be difficult when well-considered, slightly pedantic arguments go head-to-head with the Ick-Factor and knee-jerk reactions to hot button trigger words.
I also stand firmly behind consent. I draw a line between thoughts and actions. I wish I could dig into this further with you and see where we agree and disagree on the details. I get really passionate about discussions like this! Discussions about beliefs fascinate me, and they usually help me challenge my own firmly held views.
Anyway, thank you for engaging with me so honestly and politely!
Oh, and sweet username…pun intended!
*Tosses a penny to you* For your thoughts, if you feel so inclined!