Is tickling cheating

[wertzsteven]

As a married man with a tickling fetish if you tickle another female is that cheating?

I've always been into tickling especially a female's feet but does any of you guys on here who are married do you consider tickling another female cheating?

Just wanted to start a conversation.

[Wolf]

As a married man with a tickling fetish if you tickle another female is that cheating?

I've always been into tickling especially a female's feet but does any of you guys on here who are married do you consider tickling another female cheating?

Just wanted to start a conversation.

Depends on the situation. Flirting isn't cheating.
But if you have a tickling fetish, some things that are just flirty to vanillas can be pretty close to cheating, if not blatantly so.
Every relationship has it own boundaries, and every situation is different.

[4Pawz]

If you’re asking, it probably is… if you have to hide it, or are worried about it, then you already know your answer. This is something to discuss with your partner, not try to justify it here

[Libertine]

Regrettably it isn't our call. The definition is made by the wife or girlfriend, and unfortunately for those whose fingertips want to wander elsewhere, it's up to her how she reacts.

[BlueLine7045]

I mean, I honestly don't think there is a black and white answer here. There are a lot of factors at play. One of the main factors would be how your significant other would feel about you getting hands on with another woman. I guess it would also depend on your relationship with the ticklee and to what extent are you tickling her.

Is it a long-term female best friend? Someone you've known since your early school days? A co-worker? Or is it some completely random woman you met in public or online somewhere? I have tickled one of my female best friends before in front of my fiancee (attempted to, she's not ticklish AT ALL) and she was whatever about it due to our long-standing friendship since freshman year of high school.

However if I walked up to a random pretty girl in public and started tickling and touching her, my fiancee would definitely leave me or there would be Hell to pay.

Also to what extent is the tickling? Is it a quick little poke in the side? Quickly dragging your finger up and down her foot? Or are you tying her up, stripping her down to her bra and panties, and having a full on session?

At the end of the day though, like Libertine said, it isn't up to you or us to decide if what you did is cheating. That's up to your partner and whether or not she feels she has been cheated on and if she can still trust you. That's up to the openness and honesty between the two of you, and if any agreements are in place.

Think about it and ask yourself. How would your wife feel or react if she caught you tickling the hell out of a woman? How would you feel if you caught her tickling a man all over?

Also in regard to Wolf's comment, my fiancee would strongly disagree with you about flirting, and many other women probably would as well. If you have a girlfriend, fiancee, wife, and you're flirting with someone else, that could be grounds for cheating.

#source: life experience. I have been discovered by my girlfriend once or twice before having a conversation about tickling and ticklishness between myself and another woman or two. While I never acted on it and the conversations never took a sexual turn, she treated the conversation as cheating and we almost broke up. To this day I am still making it up to her and I feel bad about it. I used to think flirting isn't cheating if it's just words but many people disagree. Same for tickling conversations.

[Wolf]

Also in regard to Wolf's comment, my fiancee would strongly disagree with you about flirting, and many other women probably would as well. If you have a girlfriend, fiancee, wife, and you're flirting with someone else, that could be grounds for cheating.

#source: life experience. I have been discovered by my girlfriend once or twice before having a conversation about tickling and ticklishness between myself and another woman or two. While I never acted on it and the conversations never took a sexual turn, she treated the conversation as cheating and we almost broke up. To this day I am still making it up to her and I feel bad about it. I used to think flirting isn't cheating if it's just words but many people disagree. Same for tickling conversations.

As I said, every relationship has its own boundaries, and every relationship is different.
#source: mutual respect and honesty, with your partner and yourself.
My wife and I are very clear on what's acceptable, and what's not. That's how you avoid situations like the one you've described.

[milagros317]

For me, it would be cheating. That is because for me tickling or being tickled is an erotic act.
You and your wife should come to an understanding about what is erotic for you and for her.

[TickleNinja98]

It is according to my wife.

[Mitchell]

It depends on the person.

A playful tickle for someone who considers it just that, playful, and does not have a fetish or get turned on by tickling another person, then no it is not cheating.

For someone of this forum, if they find tickling erotic, or a sexual turn on, and said person has a partner, who either does let that person tickle them or even if the partner does not let the partner tickle them, it is cheating unless the person's partner gives them consent to tickle another person.

If I had a gf, whether I tickled her, never,, rarely,. sometimes, or often, to me, tickling would be cheating, because I find tickling a sexual turn on, and I am getting sexual excitement from tickling another person besides my partner.

[playjoe]

No ! not at all unless you are tickling the kitty

[Wolf]

It is according to my wife.

Then it is.

[Goatboy]

If you’re asking, it probably is… if you have to hide it, or are worried about it, then you already know your answer. This is something to discuss with your partner, not try to justify it here

Exactly this

[AI93JR]

If its a sexually driven venture, yes it is.

[saratk]

Cheating of any kind is defined by your individual relationship. If you have to hide it or your partner wouldn’t be ok with it, it’s cheating. If you have a partner that says it’s ok to tickle someone else or get tickled, it’s not.

[Rasputin]

I used to have a dear friend who would give advice like this…

“If you think you’re drinking too much, you’re probably drinking too much.”

I think that same philosophy is true here.

If you are in a committed relationship, and you think tickling someone else is cheating, it probably is.

I was approached several months back to have a session with one of the best all time “MILF”s in the tickling business. I adore this model. I tried to rationalize a million different ways to have this session. At the end of the day, all I could see was the hurt heart and sad face of my beautiful (and volatilely ticklish) wife. And I knew it was cheating.

There is no right justification for wrong action.