tickleteasing
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You find out your Gynecologist is on TMF a week before you have an appointment to go see him, and you find him extremely attractive. Also, he does not know you know
I can think of a few issues here: Why gynaecologist? Typically, the inside of one’s vag isn’t ticklish. I don’t know who mine is gonna be as I haven’t met them yet. And I’m not sure someone with a good career would be daft enough to post their face on a fetish forum. But in any case, it shouldn’t interfere with the actual appointment. Even if it did, the two people involved need to maintain a professional relationship because otherwise it would be illegal.
There's an entire forum dedicated to people's "darkest fantasies" for people to share scenarios and not be shamed for them. Some of the fantasies people described make me far more uncomfortable than this apparent fantasy that tickleteasing wants to have entertained.
It's possible that tickleteasing may be one of the few people here with a fetish for speculums in addition to a fetish for tickling.
I can't confirm whether or not they started this thread out of genuine interest to enjoy other people's thoughts on this fantasy or to troll or harass people.
The problem of course is that I'm sure that women here have received DM's like this because some screwed up people want to victimize people with requests designed to be disturbing. So women here who have a dislike or suspicion of this sort of unusual public comment is something that I can understand why, if not otherwise clarified, could be perceived as an attempt to harass someone.
So on one hand, tickleteasing could have worded this statement in a more detailed manner to avoid confusion and offense in his intentions. Since they've been here since 2002, it's long enough for most people who consider other people's situations to know that a straightforward question like this may be mistaken as being serious and considered offensive.
BUT, on the other hand, this WASN'T a DM.
It's possible that members are taking the liberty to shame this person for their genuine personal fantasy.
This is really no more straightforward than any other fantasy that gets posted about, and tickleteasing may not be so naive as to think that this actually happening in the real world would be acceptable.
So even though their post could be reworded to make people more open to what they're describing, the last thing this place is for is kink shaming.
I'm just saying, maybe this person didn't mean any harm and deserves a chance to clarify their intentions.
But if this WAS a straightforward question, I'm not a woman, but here's my opinion.
First, being a member of the TMF alone doesn't automatically make people fall for each other. Also, I imagine that finding out your doctor, co-worker, accountant, etc. was a member here would not change the nature of your professional relationship.
If attraction for them does play a part in this scenario, in reality, even if someone was really attracted to their doctor, out of common sense I don't think that it would make them spill the beans about their fetish to their doctor. It's never acceptable to flirt with a doctor who you're a patient of. You would be escorted out of their facility, your doctor/patient relationship will end and you might be charged with sexual harassment.
Also, the doctor might be attractive, but they might be married or in a monogamous relationship. Also, the doctor might not be attracted to their patient.
And even if a doctor was attracted to their patient, they would not be attracted enough to lose their license to practice medicine by having a relationship with a patient. For most intelligent and non-corrupt people, sexual desires don't override the other things in life that are important to you, especially if you spent years working hard to achieve them.
As I understand it, if it's important enough to a person to pursue a relationship with a doctor, they would legally have stop being their patient first. This would put them in a situation afterword where upon proposing a relationship, they would either successfully form some kind of romantic relationship or friendship with the doctor, or they would reject them, and no longer be applicable to be their patient either.
Good doctors are hard to find. I value the people I've come to trust with advice and treatment on my health too much to lose my right to be their patient, and I think that a lot of people would feel the same.
If you want to fantasize about people in a situation where if they went through with it, realistically they would be risking throwing their whole lives away for a sexual venture, that's fine in fantasy. But if you want to know what they would do in this situation, I don't think that you'd find many women here who would feel emboldened enough to try to entice or seduce their doctor or any professional at the risk of possibly being charged with sexual harassment.
But stranger and more corrupt and terrible things have happened with extremely unrestrained people who want to believe that they had the power to manipulate anybody they want with sexuality to get what they want.
The less dangerous people who succumb to these propositions usually only do so because they're ignorant or have no self control.
But often, people who accept sexual advances in these circumstances either don't value what they have to lose from it or their nature is extremely corrupt, both potentially making them very dangerous.
Either way, both parties who hypothetically engaged in inappropriate relationships like this are making themselves vulnerable to another person who could hurt them. It's not a smart move.
Well this opened up a can of worms lol
Open-ended questions based on a WTF premise usually do.
I am sorry if the post was badly worded I tend to post things without thinking
There's an entire forum dedicated to people's "darkest fantasies" for people to share scenarios and not be shamed for them. Some of the fantasies people described make me far more uncomfortable than this apparent fantasy that tickleteasing wants to have entertained.
It's possible that tickleteasing may be one of the few people here with a fetish for speculums in addition to a fetish for tickling.
I can't confirm whether or not they started this thread out of genuine interest to enjoy other people's thoughts on this fantasy or to troll or harass people.
The problem of course is that I'm sure that women here have received DM's like this because some screwed up people want to victimize people with requests designed to be disturbing. So women here who have a dislike or suspicion of this sort of unusual public comment is something that I can understand why, if not otherwise clarified, could be perceived as an attempt to harass someone.
So on one hand, tickleteasing could have worded this statement in a more detailed manner to avoid confusion and offense in his intentions. Since they've been here since 2002, it's long enough for most people who consider other people's situations to know that a straightforward question like this may be mistaken as being serious and considered offensive.
BUT, on the other hand, this WASN'T a DM.
It's possible that members are taking the liberty to shame this person for their genuine personal fantasy.
This is really no more straightforward than any other fantasy that gets posted about, and tickleteasing may not be so naive as to think that this actually happening in the real world would be acceptable.
So even though their post could be reworded to make people more open to what they're describing, the last thing this place is for is kink shaming.
I'm just saying, maybe this person didn't mean any harm and deserves a chance to clarify their intentions.
Well believe it or not I heard a woman say she orgasmed seeing one
The main "problem" here - and I use that term loosely - is that when a post like this is made, one cannot tell whether or not the OP is being serious or simply wanting a fantasy entertained.
As I've pointed out before, this community fosters a particular breed of stupid where people truly believe weird shit and then actually go out and do it and sometimes land in really hot water over it.
So when somebody - as I've pointed out before - sends me a DM telling me they want me to go tickle a "friend" of theirs at a public event, I have no way of knowing whether they're trying to springboard a bit of creative writing, or they're a creep who hopes I actually see nothing wrong with assaulting a stranger. The latter people exist. They post here. And your reaction to a thread is definitely going to depend on whether or not you're responding to one of those people.
An obviously fantasy scenario about tickle robots is one thing. We know it's a creative writing prompt. A dancing-on-the-line thread about real-world interpersonal interactions that could have serious consequences, where the OP may be floating the idea hoping to get some reinforcement before they go try it themselves, is another. We don't know. And responding to such a thread with "oo that's so hot" and then having the OP go and get in serious trouble because some strangers on the internet said it's ok, is not something we want to encourage as a community... especially with the way the feds are camping sites like 4Chan looking for the next mass tragedy to prevent.
The main "problem" here - and I use that term loosely - is that when a post like this is made, one cannot tell whether or not the OP is being serious or simply wanting a fantasy entertained.
As I've pointed out before, this community fosters a particular breed of stupid where people truly believe weird shit and then actually go out and do it and sometimes land in really hot water over it.
So when somebody - as I've pointed out before - sends me a DM telling me they want me to go tickle a "friend" of theirs at a public event, I have no way of knowing whether they're trying to springboard a bit of creative writing, or they're a creep who hopes I actually see nothing wrong with assaulting a stranger. The latter people exist. They post here. And your reaction to a thread is definitely going to depend on whether or not you're responding to one of those people.
An obviously fantasy scenario about tickle robots is one thing. We know it's a creative writing prompt. A dancing-on-the-line thread about real-world interpersonal interactions that could have serious consequences, where the OP may be floating the idea hoping to get some reinforcement before they go try it themselves, is another. We don't know. And responding to such a thread with "oo that's so hot" and then having the OP go and get in serious trouble because some strangers on the internet said it's ok, is not something we want to encourage as a community... especially with the way the feds are camping sites like 4Chan looking for the next mass tragedy to prevent.
Solemates:
That's a significant point. But clearly, nobody here encouraged the OP to further pursue this.
To be fair, the OP of the thread's question wasn't reaching out to other people to perpetrate a crime, he was asking a poorly and vaguely written question.
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