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While I understand this is your personal preference, and you may not get into intense situations that require a safeword, setting this kind of precedent is dangerous. Having clear, concise communication at all times is important. Having a safeword isn't about being able to let your lee protest, or tell you to stop even though they don't want you to, it's a safety net, so that all parties know where the line is and can communicateit clearly. Having a random word that you both know is a clear signal that something is wrong takes a lot of the risk away. It also is a training mechanism, because your partner may not play with just you. If they go into another scenario thinking there is no safeword, that could be dangerous. I implore you to at least use something that is clearly identified between you two as a stopping word. Then everyone learns safe practices and processes. Safety first people.
