Is it a turn off when someone is either not ticklish or hates being tickled?

[moose]

non-ticklish turn off if they hate it i feel bad but its not a turn off so i guess im evil XD

[berlinerbaer]

Someone not ticklish can actually be a turn on for me. Given he loves to tickle mercilessly and uses my ticklishness against me ;-)

[BarbaricTickler88]

Non-ticklish woman is an instant turn off. Horrendous creatures in my book. Filthy. Not to be touched.

Same goes for those who hate it, IF I personally establish that's the case.

[TheTickleMonster]

I do think non-ticklish women are kinda boring and annoying when they're not ticklish. I haven't dated anyone that's not ticklish though so i'm not sure if that's a deal breaker for me, but I would definitely prefer them to be ticklish.

As for hating it, my girlfriend's didn't like being tickled.. but there's hate, and then there's hate.. there's hate like from some sort of trauma, don't like people tickling them.. and then there's just hate like they don't want to be tickled because it's annoying or whatever.. i tickle that second group anyways, they'll forgive me later so it's not a big deal, as long as I don't constantly tickle them.

[magic fingers]

Non-ticklish woman is an instant turn off. Horrendous creatures in my book. Filthy. Not to be touched.

Same goes for those who hate it, IF I personally establish that's the case.

That's kind of harsh, don't ya think?

[pitticklinger]

I echo a lot of the same sentiments here, besides the extremists... If they aren't ticklish, it is unfortunately a turnoff, though certainly not a reflection of them as a person. lol

As for "hating to be tickled", I have only really experienced that with one-night stands who let me tie them up and I try tickling them from there. (Most of the time the result is awkwardly saying "what the fuck" through tickle-induced laughter and letting me carry on, but I digress. In my experience, partners who have hated being tickled started off by reluctantly appeasing me, but eventually grew to love it because of how much it turned me on. Also, I have historically dated subby women and tickling is the least painful way to make someone submit to you, so if anything women I have dated in the past developed some sort of arousal from tickling, without necessarily having the fetish.

[BBGuy5240]

Not always for me. I've dated girls who weren't ticklish at all. But since they weren't ticklish, I was able to engage in my other fetishes. I was able to play with/worship their bellybuttons and feet without interruption.

[QuietTickleGuy]

It sucks if they're not ticklish unless they use that to lure victims in close to tickle back

[P_Bustleton]

Any woman not ticklish or who hates to be tickled gets immediately friend-zoned.

[BlueLine7045]

That's kind of harsh, don't ya think?

Definitely harsh. That's a human being he's talking about. People don't choose to be not ticklish. It just happens for one reason or another. Honestly, if thats how he views someone who isnt ticklish, id hate to see how he views other human beings he has problems with. Really scary.

Let's be courteous and respectful of our fellow human being please

[wertzsteven]

Non ticklish females are turnoff.

[QuietTickleGuy]

I have a female friend who is not ticklish at all on any spots, but she loves having her feet played with and she loves to tickle torture other people

[Toesheldback]

I guess the main reason I’m ok with non-ticklish people is that you get to explore if they consent.

[dashboard]

Non-ticklishness is definitely a turn-off but not a complete dealbreaker. After all there are other way to explore my fetish. If they hate being tickled, I guess it depends on how much. I had an ex who didn't like being tickled but she would still let me tickle her because she knew it turned me on. If a woman hated being tickled and wouldn't let me tickle her at all, then that would probably be a turn-off.

[BlueLine7045]

Non-ticklishness is definitely a turn-off but not a complete dealbreaker. After all there are other way to explore my fetish. If they hate being tickled, I guess it depends on how much. I had an ex who didn't like being tickled but she would still let me tickle her because she knew it turned me on. If a woman hated being tickled and wouldn't let me tickle her at all, then that would probably be a turn-off.

I just don't see the point if there isn't any hope of a reaction. I kind of understand where y'all are coming from, where the act of tickling and touching in and of itself can be sexy, and I agree, but for me it ultimately comes down to some type of reaction whether it be a giggle or twitch or something.

The hope that you come across a spot on a "non-ticklish" person also makes the idea very sexy. Never know when you're going to strike gold. Maybe you hit a spot they never knew about